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I mean you like what you like. If you're not hurting anyone then what does it matter? Yes there is definitely a social norm that seems to have a hate on for muscular women. I don't know if it's because it challenges the whole men are the strong alpha or whatever. But you can like whatever you like. Fat girls, Trans, midgets, whatever. Go on a true porn site and you will see some super specific stuff on there from Asian girls to people peeing on each other. Maybe you don't broadcast it to the world but I don't think you have to in order to be ok with yourself.
It shouldn't end your whole world. You have shitty friends if that's the case. Yeah they might make fun of you for a bit but I'm sure at least one of them has a fat wife that he still fucks. I'm sure he loves her and tells her she's beautiful. What's wrong with that?
I mean you like what you like. If you're not hurting anyone then what does it matter? Yes there is definitely a social norm that seems to have a hate on for muscular women. I don't know if it's because it challenges the whole men are the strong alpha or whatever. But you can like whatever you like. Fat girls, Trans, midgets, whatever. Go on a true porn site and you will see some super specific stuff on there from Asian girls to people peeing on each other. Maybe you don't broadcast it to the world but I don't think you have to in order to be ok with yourself.
It shouldn't end your whole world. You have shitty friends if that's the case. Yeah they might make fun of you for a bit but I'm sure at least one of them has a fat wife that he still fucks. I'm sure he loves her and tells her she's beautiful. What's wrong with that?
Thanks for that dude, needed that
I felt the same way when I was young, but I was a lot more insecure in general. There are a lot of inner thoughts you don't share with just anybody, but it can be very liberating when you find that person who you can trust with those things, whether it be a friend or a girlfriend or whoever. Just don't force it with anybody you don't feel will accept it. There's no reason to. There's nothing wrong with keeping it to yourself. Do you know the sexual fantasies of everyone in your life? Would you even want to?
Eatskeetdelete confessed:
I have had a bit of a "road block" recently. I've been really ashamed and guilty that i like the whole "girls with muscles" thing.
Anyone else have the same feeling? I cant be the only one... right?
Can't say I feel the same (guilt/shame), but you shouldn't feel bad for who you are.
Reading more posts than I can remember, there definitely are those who struggle with this side of themselves, and go to great lengths to keep their passions hidden. Do what feels right but don't let anyone shame you
I disagree with the responses on here, I'm attracted to FBB's too but it definitely is something that would be considered weird. Even within this community there are certain aspects that people think is too much (body hair, roid voices, etc) but people are still attracted to a lot of that stuff. I think the vast majority of men just aren't attracted to muscular women, the reason it's considered a fetish is because it's an attraction to something that is out of the ordinary.
There is nothing wrong with liking strong women there are a lot of benefits to having a strong girlfriend but most men are not attracted to them as far as fetishes go this is probably one of the better ones to have compared to a lot of other stuff that exists so i would just do what makes you happy because nothing bad can really happen
I guess during the process almost all of us have been there, maybe just even for a while. Personally I felt that way during my teenage, especially when it's the moment you get a gf. I was and still am attracted by muscles, not big IFBB, not even "regular" girls. I almost "forced" myself thinking I was weird and it was time to grow and get mature, I've been into relationships with even attractive partners, the "right persons" but I was lying myself and forcing myself being what other people thought I was supposed to be. I finally made peace with it and stopped overthink. I just accepted the way I am. Life faced me many many challenges that this thing was not a priority anymore, in my 40ies I'm still single and maybe I will like forever but I'm feeling good with myself and even this thing we have for muscular women. Some guys have been lucky enough being able to find a partner that understand and enjoy this thing, but it's so not so easy indeed. Some I know can separate the fantasy for muscular girls and feel good with a "regular" partner as well. That's not working for me. Also, I need my partner's complicity on this, I need her to know I'm turned on by her muscles and strength. I have been lucky enough to live this experience more than once but not lucky enough to keep those relationship lasting, for many reasons. End of story, we all are different, we all have a different life and experience, so we can't compare each other and judge. I still have people asking me why I'm not married, but I always refused myself getting married with someone I was not 100% connected, without the full complicity needed, not only about the daily life but also regarding the intimate side. But I'm not saying that's what you have to do, that was the right thing for me. Some of my friends know this side of me and they almost understand it, some times they joke about it but mainly they got it, I'm also the first being ironic on this and I've found a good balance in my life about it. But despite not being attracted by the most extreme body builders at all, but more a fitness type, this thing affected all my personal life's choice, if I have to be honest. I don't regret, I'm who I am and fuq off what people think of say. But please don't feel guilty, unless your actions are hurting someone else you are completely fine.
This responce might be taken down, but I am gonna write it anyway. As a 6years old I was told I was gonna be totally paralized on my right hand side.... it didn´t happen. Surely I was athletich and so on as a teen - not that I was growing big with muscles, but still. People asked me how I could like fit women when I wasn´t fit myself (now we are talking about the PRO Level fit here) And my responce was - this will get me in trouble on this site. I asked them if they liked music, movies and so on, most did, and I asked them what band or what movie they been apart of. Once again English is my Fifth (5th) language so bare that in mind that as I write this. 100% of the people/individual I asked about the music/movies question thay all said no, no one had any background in any. My second question was; "How can you then like it?" Sure some deathtreaths came and some fights appeared, all I wanted to show their doublemoral, as if you ani´t build in a certain way or not having the specific ethnicity or done any work in certain business you can Not like it. None of the understood. I have a huge background of being banned or simply having my comments erased from several forums becouse of my questions OR simply wanting to teach people in language etc. What I want to leave you with is; LOVE what YOU LOVE and keep on Loving it. You wouldn´t imaging how many people around thye net that feels like you, in certain topics. Peace.
I have had a bit of a "road block" recently. I've been really ashamed and guilty that i like the whole "girls with muscles" thing. Other people think it's really fucking weird (except for the people on this site). I've had to take really drastic measures to make sure none of my family members or friends find this out. Because if they do, that will end my world.
I just feel like i did something wrong when i go into this topic.
Anyone else have the same feeling? I cant be the only one... right?
You are definitely not the only one. Like previous comments up top, people have way more harder (and even illegal fetishes). Yes you will get judged, cause you don't conform to the "A lady must be thin, big boobs and tiny".
That doesn't mean it's wrong, if both of you are over 18 and give consent it's totally legal. I'm lucky enough my fiance gets me and is into it as well. Meaning i can share pics, we can have discussions and even phone sex as a method of foreplay. So not everyone is against it there is partners that understand and love it too.
As I explained to her. It's not that I'm into men, but a muscular woman is beautiful cause the amount of dedication and hard work to get there is absolutely ridiculous. It takes a woman 3x to 5x as much effort to get where a man is. So if a woman is built it shows dedication. It does not mean I want that in a woman to be happy, but it's still beautiful.
Stop banging yourself up over it, there's people that's into pedophilia and necrophilia that's super messed up. You are not alone. At all. I felt alone... Just like you. I thought I had to go and see someone... Then I saw how many people are into it... I can promise you so many more will come out once they see platforms like this. It's becoming a trend for women to get muscles as well. So i see it as an absolute win. Embrace it.
The older you get, I think the less you care about others' perception of your sexual tastes. Every guy growing up is going to have insecurities if their tastes differ from societal norms, it's basically a rite of passage. A lot of people echo the sentiment that you should be who you are and others don't actually care what your tastes are, which I don't think is entirely accurate. To some degree, yes, people don't care about what you do in general, but if you don't think people are going to say or think you're "weird" for liking massive female bodybuilders, I think that's unlikely.
What matters though, is that their opinions on it shouldn't matter to you. It's extremely difficult to come to terms with that, it's just natural for humans to want to feel accepted, but it certainly fades over time. It's kind of like when 70 year olds will say whatever the fuck they want to say because they just don't care anymore.
It also depends on your upbringing. Me being from a 3rd world country and a religious family, this thing was worse than taboo. Double Shame if family finds out and bullying if your friends/enemies find out. I had a very hard time trying to keep bth8s a secret. And yes the guilt is huge
Crazy how you have to use friends and enemies in the same breath like that. I totally understand though. Just the yesterday my good friend was shaming me for trying to talk to a muscular woman, but personally I stopped giving a fuck a long time ago. Everyone’s situation is different but life is too short to not live your truth and if that truth is admiration and attraction to muscular women, so be it. As long as you truly don’t feel like you’re compromising your morals, there’s nothing wrong with it at all friend.
& To piggy back off what someone else said on this thread, liking muscular woman is such a mild fetish, if you even want to call it that. It’s just a preference at the end of the day. Plus, If you both work out enough, no one will even bat an eye.
In a world where it's been deemed acceptable for an 8 year old girl to decide to become a boy, EVERYTHING I'm into, including women with muscle, pales in comparison. Additionally, I've never given a shit about what anyone thinks about me or what I'm into.
@gwmlvr, As far as I'm concerned....this is one of the most profound comments I've ever read!!! Bravo!👍
Yes @Eatskeetdelete listen to all the good things people have said in this thread. Don't beat yourself up for what you fear others might think of you. People will think what they want about you, it's their right. But you're under no obligation to be affected by it. And your sexual preference (of all things) is of your concern alone (obv, as long as it doesn't hurt others).
You find muscular women attractive? Good for you, real gourmet if I might say. Go live your life how it works best for you.
Thanks guys for all the nice comments. I feel way better about myself now :)
I have had a bit of a "road block" recently. I've been really ashamed and guilty that i like the whole "girls with muscles" thing. Other people think it's really fucking weird (except for the people on this site). I've had to take really drastic measures to make sure none of my family members or friends find this out. Because if they do, that will end my world.
I just feel like i did something wrong when i go into this topic.
Anyone else have the same feeling? I cant be the only one... right?