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Don’t think about it too much. For me it is the dominance aspect of a big, powerful, muscular woman that is the thing for me. I know that’s mostly a fantasy, but that is what makes it a fetish. I’ve never had the opportunity to act on it and not sure if I ever would. But using my imagination can make it a physically self satisfying experience. And I’m talking really big, brutish type women that could control you physically and have their way with you sexually. Again, that’s what makes it a fetish.
Don’t think about it too much. For me it is the dominance aspect of a big, powerful, muscular woman that is the thing for me. I know that’s mostly a fantasy, but that is what makes it a fetish. I’ve never had the opportunity to act on it and not sure if I ever would. But using my imagination can make it a physically self satisfying experience. And I’m talking really big, brutish type women that could control you physically and have their way with you sexually. Again, that’s what makes it a fetish.
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personally never been into the domination side. Like yeah it'd probably be happening if I was with a girl who was stronger than me, but that would also apply to some girl who's like a strongman-type build and not so much the jacked/ripped body that most GWM enjoyers go for.
personally never been into the domination side. Like yeah it'd probably be happening if I was with a girl who was stronger than me, but that would also apply to some girl who's like a strongman-type build and not so much the jacked/ripped body that most GWM enjoyers go for.
I know what you mean. I like the ripped type also, but the big, powerful bodybuilder is what attracts me.
I think a positive about having the fetish is that it seems wayyyyyy better than a vast majority, if not every other fetish. I don't mean like from a 'taste in women' standpoint, but like LITERALLY mentally, physically, and realistically better for everyone involved.
Body dysmorphia is about to enter the chat
I know what you mean. I like the ripped type also, but the big, powerful bodybuilder is what attracts me.
bodybuilder is different than strongman. i get the appeal in the bodybuilders too but i meant it like if the strength/domination alone was the factor then everyone would be going for them, which most arent.
To be honest, I will say that this fetish has made me feel conflicted. On one hand, this fetish has been normalized for the better part of a decade (could be a social media act and maybe in reality not everyonereally believes the hype), but I still don't feel vindicated.
I still feel like I'm so lost in this lustful state. I don't mean to think about it that way, but that's what it is. I feel so wrong about it because I'm so trapped inside the idea of muscular women being attractive that I try to talk myself out of it & realise that this fantasy has gone on way too long. (The worse part is, it kinda makes it sound hot. Like a "why does something that feels so bad, feels oh so good" type of deal.)
On the other hand, it's not so bad. I'm appreciating this built woman. Like, she went ahead and got to the gym and worked her ass off (even though there's that possibility that she has taken steroids... not that I'm judging).
I find the fantasy of buff women fascinating. Just touching them. I'm not jazzed about being manhandled as part of the fantasy, let alone being the topic of ridicule whilst fantasizing about (maybe... hopefully) touching a buff woman. Just touching them. Being on this website has made me feel calm for not being judged -- granted, it could be because I'm ignored most of the time, but I'm still not judged for it -- for being so enamored by the sight of buff women.
I still find normal sized women attractive and it has balanced it out for me. This post is probably the most saddest, pathetic cries for attention now that I look at it.
I don't feel that the fetish is normalized at all. I still have friends who I won't tell because they'd be repulsed. There are even FBBs who hate us -- i.e., they are in it purely for the sport and are creeped out by fetishists.
I don't like that it's so hard to find muscular women to date. Other than that, I love it. I've had the chance to date a few beautiful muscular women and the physical aspects of the relationship are pretty intense. Making love to a muscular woman when you have a muscle fetish is pure ecstasy. But muscular women are the exception, not the rule.
I've never dated a pro FBB. Probably never will. A man can dream, though...
I usually don’t participate in forums, but i feel like i need to let some things out since we‘re already talking about this topic. I definitely feel you OP but for me it’s not the amount of muscular women in society, it’s more the intensity of my fetish because every time i encounter a muscular female (does not happen often but it happened a couple of times) i literally can feel how my heart starts racing and the adrenaline and arousal shoots through my body which makes me feel like a creep.
I‘m not staring an these women, nor am i secretly taking pictures or whatnot, in the end i‘m a sane human being, i‘m not a creep or a assaulter, yet it feels so wrong knowing this woman is just there and i‘m about to pass out just because of her appearance.
It happened a couple of times where i really needed to leave places because i felt like okay i can’t be here in this state. I wish the intensity would be less.
I‘m still glad its only this, i‘ve heard about many fetishes which are actually gross and i‘m happy i‘m not aroused by these certain things, and i appreciate the fact that i‘m self aware enough to know how to deal with these situations, yet it feels wrong and it disturbs me.
I also couldn’t live with the fact that i‘m with my wife and kids one day and almost explode in my pants because a woman with muscles walks by.
Yes, i’m aware of the fact that even though you are married, you will find other people attractive, i know my future wife will too. But its not about finding someone attractive, it’s about the fact that you see a person and you get so aroused that your body starts shaking and your breathing cuts short and this within a second.
it’s more the intensity of my fetish
This is an excellent perspective. Not letting desire control you is key.
It's important to remember that everyone likes something. We really appreciate various degrees of muscular women here, but there are guys who feel that desire for anime body pillows, "sounding", and even various farm animals (Mr. Hands, etc).
Our advantage is that muscular women are just women with muscles. Talking to them shouldn't be any harder than talking to unattractive women, in theory. In practice, that intensity latsucker mentioned will affect your outcome. As long as you can stay calm and remain in the moment, you'll find muscular women are mostly friendly and pleasant to talk to. The same applies to most people in general. The challenge is talking to them like normal people. Not asking about their max lifts or measurements.
Yes, i’m aware of the fact that even though you are married, you will find other people attractive, i know my future wife will too. But its not about finding someone attractive, it’s about the fact that you see a person and you get so aroused that your body starts shaking and your breathing cuts short and this within a second.
It's been a pain in the ass if I'm being truthful. My attraction to female muscle is more toward the fitness-type body which is easier to find in the wild and I have been fortunate to have had relationships over the years with some women who had that body type. My wife has that body type and I feel lucky to have found her. However, my preference for muscle hampered some of my earlier relationships with traditionally good-looking, nice women because the attraction just wasn't what I wanted it to be. I've been attracted to fit, muscular women since at least the third or fourth grade so it's really all I've ever known. I long ago gave up trying to figure out why but I just think "well, who wouldn't be attracted a a fit, muscular woman?" However, there were times when I was younger that I wished I had been wired in a more standard manner.
I love the attraction, largely because, well - I love ME.
Being attracted to muscle isn’t weird. In fact, it makes a ton of sense when you zoom out — strength, power, discipline, visual symmetry - it’s got everything. But if the fantasy becomes an escape hatch instead of a lens, it can disconnect you from real intimacy, real women, and real possibilities.
Must admit, I'm proud to be attracted to fit and muscular women. They are fit and healthy, that in itself is attractive. I'm fortunate to be married to an athletic woman who works out 5 days a week and whom I worship so maybe I'm biased but nevertheless, I see no reason to find it taboo or deviant. It is not 'wrong' it's just preference!
I personally like and enjoy the attraction.
I would add, being attracted to muscular/athletic women is not the same as being attracted to pictures and videos of them. As great as those things are, they are the same thing as rushing to eat a bowl of popcorn every time you are hungry. Now, I like popcorn as much as anyone else around here, but snack food alone won’t get you the results in life that you are looking for. Maybe that’s why you think your attraction might be a curse?
Consider, if you lived a century ago, you would be on the PROWL. You would be tuned in to exactly where you need to go and who you need to look for to meet the kind of female who satisfies your sense of attraction. In today’s age, you just need a couple of clicks to feel satisfied. This convenience very well could short circuit your instincts. It certainly will not get you a flesh and blood real person.
There are so many questions and topics on this forum along the lines of “where and how do I meet muscular women?” That is the question you need to ask. It’s possible and achievable for you. You just can’t waste too much of your time and energy on the Internet.
Muscular women, particularly the ones on this site who garner the most likes, are not especially "healthy" (physically or mentally). In bodybuilding, there's an awful lot of vanity, narcissism, and drug abuse. As I've remarked in the past, I would ideally be attracted to people who are in high supply and low demand. But it's self-indulgent to go too far down these non-sexual fantasies because they're just impossible; "ought" implies "can." Ideally, humans would eat sunlight rather than animals (which would eliminate a tremendous amount of suffering in the world). On the other side of the coin, it seems pretty silly to take pride in something one didn't choose, whether it's sthenolagnia or one's own hair color/height/jawline.
Of course I like muscular women - thats just how my and everyone else here brains are wired. But I don't like that fact.
Why don't you?
Sure, it's not ONLY being attracted to muscular women, normal ones still give an appeal. But it probably wouldeve been nice to have a reverse to what I have right now, where I'm attracted to normal ones more than muscular ones.
Why? Who's judging you? What is your worry?
My problem is the realism of it. Muscular girls, even ATHLETIC girls make up such a small amount of the population, it's not even funny. Finding one in your personal life, and then actually being able to know them is an even smaller chance. And then god forbid DATING or MARRYING them is like a unicorn.
So what? Appreciating muscular women doesn't mean you're entitled to find them, have a relationship with them or dating or marrying them.
The world is better with them in it. Let's enjoy that much.
But just because the fetish's trait is good for everyone involved, doesn't mean its good to be ATTRACTED to it. Sure, someone who's attracted to money may have the positive of wanting money for a better life, but then the downside is of striving towards something that you may not ever have.
Why "striving"? You may merely enjoy contemplation. Women are not things to be possessed.
Being attracted to some kind of person doesn't mean that you are entitled to "have them", or that being frustrated by not achieving the "possession" is healthy.
Most people that cross your path will never have anything to do with you. Some of them will be beautiful. That doesn't mean that you have the right to insert yourself in their life. Enjoy the beauty and leave them be.
I usually don’t participate in forums, but i feel like i need to let some things out since we‘re already talking about this topic. I definitely feel you OP but for me it’s not the amount of muscular women in society, it’s more the intensity of my fetish because every time i encounter a muscular female (does not happen often but it happened a couple of times) i literally can feel how my heart starts racing and the adrenaline and arousal shoots through my body which makes me feel like a creep.
I‘m not staring an these women, nor am i secretly taking pictures or whatnot, in the end i‘m a sane human being, i‘m not a creep or a assaulter, yet it feels so wrong knowing this woman is just there and i‘m about to pass out just because of her appearance.
It happened a couple of times where i really needed to leave places because i felt like okay i can’t be here in this state. I wish the intensity would be less.
I‘m still glad its only this, i‘ve heard about many fetishes which are actually gross and i‘m happy i‘m not aroused by these certain things, and i appreciate the fact that i‘m self aware enough to know how to deal with these situations, yet it feels wrong and it disturbs me.
I also couldn’t live with the fact that i‘m with my wife and kids one day and almost explode in my pants because a woman with muscles walks by.
Yes, i’m aware of the fact that even though you are married, you will find other people attractive, i know my future wife will too. But its not about finding someone attractive, it’s about the fact that you see a person and you get so aroused that your body starts shaking and your breathing cuts short and this within a second.
yea well said when i mention this problem i am called creepy despite my not doing anything and just explaining what i was thinking at the moment on a fetish website not to random people .maybe it would be less of a problem if i saw muscle women more often. but when i see one its really hard to focus its like seeing a celebrity tresure chest or other very rare desirable thing.
I used to take it more seriously but these days I'm just chill about it. I like what I like and that's that. I mean, don't get me wrong, my attraction to muscular people, women in particular, is definitely strong but I don't view it as a negative or positive thing, it just is. I can't say that it has really impacted my life yet, beyond a briefly embarrassing moment of me sending a picture to the wrong contact.
I'll be 100% honest. I dont like it.
Of course I like muscular women - thats just how my and everyone else here brains are wired. But I don't like that fact.
Sure, it's not ONLY being attracted to muscular women, normal ones still give an appeal. But it probably wouldeve been nice to have a reverse to what I have right now, where I'm attracted to normal ones more than muscular ones.
Honestly, the attraction itself isn't even the problem to me. I feel like being attracted to muscular girls is a much better experience anyways. They can quite literally do everything a normal girl can, might have the same allure (if they have breasts/femininity), and can do more interesting stuff with size/strength/muscles.
My problem is the realism of it. Muscular girls, even ATHLETIC girls make up such a small amount of the population, it's not even funny. Finding one in your personal life, and then actually being able to know them is an even smaller chance. And then god forbid DATING or MARRYING them is like a unicorn.
Sure, the gym exists to find/get to know them, but people don't go there to date. Especially not attractive women who likely have someone or are already looking for someone in their life that they already know.
I don't think it's ALL negatives, though.
I think a positive about having the fetish is that it seems wayyyyyy better than a vast majority, if not every other fetish. I don't mean like from a 'taste in women' standpoint, but like LITERALLY mentally, physically, and realistically better for everyone involved.
But just because the fetish's trait is good for everyone involved, doesn't mean its good to be ATTRACTED to it. Sure, someone who's attracted to money may have the positive of wanting money for a better life, but then the downside is of striving towards something that you may not ever have.
That's all just my take/thoughts of it, though. Im interested to hear what yall think.