Is your wife/girlfriend attracted to muscular men as we are to muscular women ?

Yes most definitely. My wife is pretty buff and works out 5-6x/week and 1 day with a trainer, himself a pretty big dude. My work schedule keeps me from a similar commitment to training but I manage 4-5 solid workouts per week nevertheless. She likes to feel my arms and shoulders often. I really enjoy feeling her body as well. I think that it’s important to have comparable physiques in a LTR to maintain similar values and foster intimacy. Usually, in general, if one partner lets themselves go, the relationship turns south.

Does your wife not have a good look or feel of her muscular personal trainer ? If she's buff and muscular herself surely she'd find all muscle attractive as we do husband/wife or not....muscle is sexy 🤷‍♂️

@Killerbodys, my wife has had 3 personal trainers in the last 2 years because they keep quitting the gym where we work out. She only found one of them to be attractive. But she liked the one who was shorter than her the most because her physique really improved under his guidance. There are more guys than women in our gym that are pretty muscular. I don’t mind at all that she notices, it’s normal and to be expected. We have been married a long time and our LTR is based on a lot of factors not just being buff and good sex.