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What would be the main reason to feel uncomfortable about the lifestyle your mother wants to make towards how she looks like? I mean if it is because she wants to have muscles snd you hsppen to like muscular women then is fine, i meanit is like saying that because you like women therefore you find your mother/sister/female relative attractive and feel a sexual attraction for yhem just because of the fact that they're women. It is more of a perspective issue than what it really is.
People change their minds and trust me sometimes that kind of changes are more about wanting to have what they were lacking and realized they need: could be to improve her self esteem (is that how it is written?) More about feeling in control of her life after the divorce, could be also that she might always liked it but now that society is moe open minded aboutdifferent kind of bodies she now feels like she can do it, who knows?
Remember that we are all humans, we can change our minds and that the way we think and we express about others is a reflection of the time we were growing up, so don't feel like she did something as bad as being like a genocide or something hahaha.
Encourage your mom if she feels like this os what she wants as she might do it for you no matter what you choose to do with your life.
Everything is fine and hope ypu dont get more conflicted about this
Not a relative, but I have had a couple experiences with co-workers who found the juice.
By experiences I mean I see them in person, not actually interface with them beyond that.
I will say it is extremely hard to focus at work when months/years pass and you watch their gains go up up and up.
Not just their physical appearance, but their entire personality changes. The two I’ve experienced this with go from extremely introverted and wouldn’t say a peep to the most dominant person in the meeting who will argue to the death over meaningless shit.
I guess this starts to make sense when you realize how much test they have to inject to get huge and lean like that.
Again, the transformation of the personality cannot be understated. Their confidence levels are transformed to a level not reachable by nattys. I think this transformation is actually more attractive than their physical transformation.
Not a relative, but I have had a couple experiences with co-workers who found the juice.
By experiences I mean I see them in person, not actually interface with them beyond that.
I will say it is extremely hard to focus at work when months/years pass and you watch their gains go up up and up.
Not just their physical appearance, but their entire personality changes. The two I’ve experienced this with go from extremely introverted and wouldn’t say a peep to the most dominant person in the meeting who will argue to the death over meaningless shit.
I guess this starts to make sense when you realize how much test they have to inject to get huge and lean like that.
Again, the transformation of the personality cannot be understated. Their confidence levels are transformed to a level not reachable by nattys. I think this transformation is actually more attractive than their physical transformation.
If this happens to OP's mom i expect pics, videos and in-depth descriptions every step of the way ahaha
Not a relative, but I have had a couple experiences with co-workers who found the juice.
By experiences I mean I see them in person, not actually interface with them beyond that.
I will say it is extremely hard to focus at work when months/years pass and you watch their gains go up up and up.
Not just their physical appearance, but their entire personality changes. The two I’ve experienced this with go from extremely introverted and wouldn’t say a peep to the most dominant person in the meeting who will argue to the death over meaningless shit.
I guess this starts to make sense when you realize how much test they have to inject to get huge and lean like that.
Again, the transformation of the personality cannot be understated. Their confidence levels are transformed to a level not reachable by nattys. I think this transformation is actually more attractive than their physical transformation.
I don’t know what you do, but I’ve never understood people who work in offices who go that route, especially with side effects. Openly descending into any other drug usually results in termination.
This thread is absolutely wild.
I know a ton of girls "on the juice." Quite a lot of guys too. Plus I do regular cycles myself.
It does make you more horny. It can make you a bit impatient. Sometimes irritable.
But the idea that steroids turn a formerly meek female office worker into a musclebound dominant alpha woman is laughably ridiculous. It doesn't do that to men either.
That is awkward my family isn't really known for being very strong. I have an instinct that makes me unable to get sexually attracted to family members. I am disgusted at the thought of it. overall my mom was way stronger than me for the first 13 years of my life so I wouldn't be ashamed of it or think it's awkward since I have already experienced that. even now I am only slightly stronger than my mom and my dad is still way stronger. but I can now run longer without getting exhausted because my dad smoked too much and is almost 60. I know truly muscular women are very rare. so it would suck if the only I see irl would be family just because they are so rare.
But the idea that steroids turn a formerly meek female office worker into a musclebound dominant alpha woman is laughably ridiculous. It doesn't do that to men either.
Hey, whoa, whoa! You're ruining their fantasies!
They're perfectly content walking down the street with a full tent pitched in their pants as they scan the area for the slightest hint of muscularity on a woman. Upon discovering a GWM, they immediately go into full fantasy mode and their subconscious takes full control of their conscious reality. Suddenly every woman on the planet can bench press over 3 tons and has over 30" biceps. Instead of polite, non-creepy conversation they decide the best course of action is to delve further into the fantasy. As they stand there at full mast and practically drooling on themselves, they can't help but wonder if these women can squeeze them in a bear hug until they blackout.
And then they blackout...
Not calling out anyone specific in this thread. The point is "don't be that guy."
It doesn't matter anymore. I can separate fantasy from reality, of course. I don't know why I made a post about it. I don't like changing people and I don't like to influence the way they should feel or behave. It doesn't matter. Why I should tell her to stop doing what she likes because I feel uneasy? I bought her clothing for workouts, if I wasn't okay with that I wouldn't have supported it. Yeah, but my actions should have coherence, why does it bother me? I was okay with that... Is there a way to close to delete the thread? It is a thing I should resolve alone. Or it doesn't even have to be resolved. Whatever happens, happens, like Spike says, I guess. I doubt this is a thing that will affect my life.
What do you mean how have you dealt with it, im sorry to say the harsh reality, but if you cant handle it if a female relative puts on a little muscle without getting fantasies about it, then your in way to deep and you should try to take a break and get back to reality
I said "I doubt this is a thing that will affect my life" and that I "can separate fantasy from reality". I said that I'm being supportive. What is the thing that I'm doing wrong? Do you go to jail for thinking of killing people or do you go to jail because you actually kill people? In that sense people should scolded for donating money to a charity because they did it only to get praise? Does it change the fact that the person who donated actually helped people? Maybe I shouldn't have delete my messages because they at least give you some context. These are not things that should be shared, I learned my lesson.
Should I take it literally? That theory sounds gross. Also it sounds like it happens to everyone...
I have no idea what this is about. Whether you are asking how have people coped with being sexually attracted to a close relative or you have you delt with someone talking badly about female body builders and then becoming one?
If it's part 1, I would say the post above yours is accurate. Although I think Freud would add you may also be Hamlet. He believed all psycho neurotics are either Oedipus or Hamlet. If it's the second guess, who cares what she thinks?
This thread is absolutely wild.
I know a ton of girls "on the juice." Quite a lot of guys too. Plus I do regular cycles myself.
It does make you more horny. It can make you a bit impatient. Sometimes irritable.
But the idea that steroids turn a formerly meek female office worker into a musclebound dominant alpha woman is laughably ridiculous. It doesn't do that to men either.
I need a like button I can mash 50 times.
This thread is absolutely wild.
I know a ton of girls "on the juice." Quite a lot of guys too. Plus I do regular cycles myself.
It does make you more horny. It can make you a bit impatient. Sometimes irritable.
But the idea that steroids turn a formerly meek female office worker into a musclebound dominant alpha woman is laughably ridiculous. It doesn't do that to men either.
I agree I'm not convinced at all. Sounds like a fetish story
I'm currently conflicted. My mother has started to attend to a gym, I think she has spent one or two months lifting weights. She has also been trying to change her diet for a healthier one (I don't know since when because I haven't paid much attention, but she has been changing along the years, always coming up with a new one), which also has adjusted the edible things we bring to our home. It is beneficial for everyone, I guess. But it is a thing that it is making me a bit uneasy...
It is not about jealousy or sexism (but I guess an outside observer can judge it better) but right now, I feel like the son (Cory) of the main character (Tara) of the MagnusMagneto's story "Mother Knows Best". Though, my relationship is different, I'm not rude to my mother or act bratty like him, on the contrary, I try to be supportive to her and don't make her feel bad by the way she wants to look but I have that latent feeling that is matter of time until she arrives the body that she wants. I will be like "Coool" and smile but I would be lying if it didn't make me uncomfortable. I wish that I didn't have a fetish for muscles, that will totally ruin it and will make me tear out my eyes. I want to have normal tastes and not think about that like a like that, a taste, despite it is the only thing that make me sexually attracted to women.
What bothers me is that it had never been like that, I always heard my mother saying that it was a very gross thing and that women looked very ugly with them. Probably things would be different if my father didn't divorce from my mother, he was even more close-minded about that and would scold me if I ever said the slightest gay thing (in my innocence, I used to express how beautiful some famous men were when I was a child). I wouldn't do that today but I wondered if those events hindered my ability to express the male beauty (though it doesn't mean that I feel sexually attracted to them). The thing is that my family has always enforced conventional gender stereotypes that had made me hide my attraction towards muscular women. I have never told that to anyone.
Now that I hear her "I want to have a body like this" while showing me the video of woman that has the legs the size of Vanessa Garcia's or Monique Rizzeto's, I cannot help but feel a bit annoyed. I guess that society is changing and having muscular bodies is becoming more acceptable between women, but it does feel inauthentic, I wished she never shitted on women for doing bodybuilding, but okay... people can change their opinions. It bothers now because today, it is an accepted symbolic expression of power or having your shit figured out that results very attractive to women because it is very socially rewarding, that receives its merit on the internet, but back then it was merely a hobby for weirdos from foreign countries... (at least in my case, latin american countries tend to be more conservative in that aspect, except from Brazil, it seems).