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From what I saw, it's already hard enough for a man to say he's hard for a muscular girl. So, even among muscles lovers, it's still hard to say that he's hard for women AND men with muscles.
Let me start by saying Thanks to OZZYFM for sticking the landing here. It took me until I was about 38 to figure out that I was bi-curious. I was never in denial about it, just didn't understand it.More on this in a minute. Meantime, the reason I met the woman that became my wife was because I figured out that I wanted to be in a relationship with a bodybuilder. That drove her crazy & we're happy as hell. She also knows about my being bi-curious; she already had a daughter (my stepdaughter), that's known she's gay/slightly-bi and been open about it since she was 13, so we live very emotionally open lives. Anyway, I'm like a few of the others on this thread, who don't really get into men, but are really turned on by bodybuilders. I, for one am really particular in terms of tastes, but the ones I like get me off as much as watching my wife lifting or posing does (every once in a while she sneaks me a quad shake when no one else is looking). It took a while to sort out, but I realized it's because bodybuilding is all about self-projection. And some men project & radiate so much power and are so perfectly made to be what they are that it just taps that vein for me. And, despite obvious differences like muscle size, and the natural form of certain areas like the hips & chest on men vs women, some men have similar shapes and aesthetics to women. Let's face it, some men have a lot of pretty muscle and I'm in a relationship with a woman that accepts me and gives me the freedom to acknowledge it. And my wife sees it as my being secure in my sexuality and manhood so it turns her on too.
Anyway, I'm the sort of person who can always end up having a lot to say and too much to say while I'm at it, so I'll stop after saying this last thing: I can see by how many pages long this thread is that there are at least a few men out there, who are fans of the scene that have the same feelings and attractions that I do and it's a relief to be able to get into it and not feel like a deviant or a freak. Thanks for that.
Love the commentary. Yes, there are guys like us that curious about male muscle. For me it's not so much as being sexual with male muscle as fantasies about touching, kissing, running my hands over a big muscled male bodybuilder. Totally into muscle worship fantasies. Being married for many years I do have some guilt but I guess my MBB fantasies are my guilty pleasure.
