Well, I don't know if I am embarrassed now... I have few friends to say I am weird, LOL! I have had a few rather embarrassing moments when a family member noticed what kind of pics I have on my PC's.. ;)

If you talked to your therapist, and it seemed to help... GREAT, and more power to you...

An old saying bears repeating here:

'To Thine own Self be True' .... You can't be anything but what you are...

..And umm, you're not that weird...
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 ;D

Hi guys. I've always been really attracted to girls with muscular and athletic bodies. I have never really admitted this to anyone. I felt a lot of shame around it. I dated athletic girls before and really enjoyed their bodies but always ignored their muscles when talking to them or my friends, I pretended that I hadn't really noticed, or even that it was a slight negative. I kept this bottled up for my entire life, I'm 28 now. Yesterday I went to my therapist and decided to tell her all about this. It went really well and to finally talk about it took a real weight off my shoulders. When I got home I wrote about it. I'm going to post what I wrote in case any of you have ever felt like this, maybe it will be of use. Pardon my grammar, it's kind of a stream of consciousness piece for my own benefit. Any questions feel free to ask.

What I wrote:

I had a really good session yesterday. I told somebody (my therapist), pretty much for the first time, that I have a really intense attraction to muscular, athletic females. I was very nervous to talk about this because I had kept it hidden my entire life. Since my earliest memories of seeing pictures of muscular women, in my uncles magazine and in Tony Quinn's health food shop window, I have been really private about my attraction to this body type and have in fact denied that I like it on numerous occasions.

I thought that being turned on by this made me weird and so I kept it a secret, a secret that caused me a lot of shame and anxiety at times. When I was telling my therapist about it I used words like illicit, sordid, weird, bizarre etc. She was amazed that I was attaching so much negative energy to it. She asked why I would ever think that it was any of those negative things. She said everybody has a type they are attracted to and why would it be so odd to be attracted to healthy, sexy and athletic women? She is, of course, right. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this.

I think on some level I thought that because muscles were considered 'masculine' by some people that liking muscular girls might have meant I was gay. In reality, I thought girls with muscular bodies were so beautiful and the absolute pinnacle of female beauty, but I couldn't admit it to anyone. But from now on I will.

I AM REALLY TURNED ON BY MUSCULAR GIRLS and if a girl is pretty, nice, we have a connection, but she is weak and soft bodied, then I will not be turned on by her. I have been denying this fact my entire life, trying to push myself into situations with girls I thought I should be attracted to, because they were conventionally pretty and I assumed most other people would do it, but that I wasn't turned on by because they didn't have the body type I like.

There are many girls in the world that are beautiful, cool etc etc but just because of this does not mean I will be, or SHOULD be , attracted to them. There are many girls in the world with athletic and muscular bodies that will drive me wild that also have cool personalities and that I will get on with- these are the girls I should be with. It doesn't matter if I get on with a girl, am single, and she is pretty, if I am not turned on by her then she is not a potential sexual partner. I can't be afraid to be choosy.
This is a huge weight off my shoulders. I have a type that REALLY turns me on. I am lucky!! I must accept who I am and enjoy it. Find muscular girls and date and have sex with them. I can appreciate that a pretty, but weak looking girl is subjectively attractive but, for the most part, she won't be the type of girl that I am DYING TO FUCK. I should be meeting girls that give me intense wood, because they are out there in large numbers. Now that I have accepted my type I can narrow my search and stop flailing around in the dark, denying my most basic urges.

I am curious, where have you met your ladies?

Now, this is an example of how NOT to do it.

She's been in this business for years, which means some guys must find this attractive. Strange?

I think Beth is really hot and find her towering upper body hilarious with her pretty face and the way her muscles and build make her big fake boobs look moderate in proportion.









She's fairly slender here:



Back to being buffed up:

if they want to keep a "glam" image, they don't flex. figure, bikini and fitness contests don't have flexing either. but paysites have lots of fitness models flexing, so it varies from model to model.

Lisa Nova is super hot in that video... but a hardbody?

yes there are fit women out there who could break you in two and smile throughout the process ...

This woman is in awesome shape ... i think she really could dominate this guy ...

I think its viewed as not so feminine ... i guess ...?

The image of a fit muscular woman up against a weak skinny man is an incredible turn on for whatever reason. given the fact that ghere are 5 billion people on the planet there are millions of super fit women out there and millions of extremely winpy guys .. but still ... a very rare situation ...

when you think of female leader (at least on the republican side of things), who comes to mind? probably sarah palin.  and while not a big fan, you will love this video of Lisa Nova imitating Sarah Palin.  Lisa is HOT! Great legs. pretty funny video too:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mhTd4_Ids80

I would take her as my leader!!

I love the pictures of like ordinary girls flexing biceps.  I think its hot. But i also want to see the professional fitness models flex.  They do all these sexy poses but many of them NEVER flex their arms. 

WHY ??????

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What happens if you meet someone you click with, but she's not a BB? Seems like you're limiting yourself (assuming this is a legit request).

Hi

   I'm fairly new to this and I hope I'm on the right section of the Muscle Forum board, but I was wondering if any of you guys out there might have any tips as to how I could possibly date a female bodybuilder...I am friends with a wonderful person who is an ex bodybuilder and power lifter from the late 70's/early 80's who is still as strong as an ox and can kick my arse to kingdom come, but I find there is no real sexual attraction and I had been in touch with a couple fbb's on the Facebook networking site, but to tell the truth they seemed to be right up their own arse with an attitude that stinks as if they're trying to make a point of being a bodybuilder. (Even she agreed to this, and she's an ex-bodybuilder.) I did meet Maria Calo in person a couple of years back while she was touring England and while she was a nice enough person, I got the distinct feeling that she doesn't try or makes no attempt to treat her fans/fbb fans in general with any real respect.

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Okay an update. That ex-swimmer girl and I are both back in our hometown for Christmas and we've met up. And... she has been working on a farm. WOW. We have been hanging out, going to coffee, etc. Today, we arm wrestled.

Now myself, I do work out, and for the last three months I have been doing powerlifting training. I'm not super great at it yet, my lifts are: Squat 95.5kg, Bench press 97.75kg, Deadlift 127.25kg, Overhead press 61.5kg, at a body weight of 81kg, 177cm. Also I very recently bicep curled 45.5kg, could maybe do 50kg once. I'd love to tell you her numbers but she refuses to go to the gym, she tells me her muscles come from "real work," hauling 20 kilo bags of animal feed, etc. I wish I could see her curl but ok  :-\. She is 167cm, used to weigh 61kg, probably still around that since she is buffer and leaner now.

We used to arm wrestle frequently when we were dating, it was cute but no challenge, and I was much weaker than I am now. I would slam her down with no effort. We would occasionally wrestle too and she had a few moments where she surprised me with her resistance, being very competitive and tenacious, but only once did she ever get me in a position where I couldn't get out. I would have to occasionally let her put me in some holds just for the enjoyment of being in them.

Today, we were sitting around and I playfully poked her on the inside of the elbow. She said "would you like to really see my arm?" even though she already knew the answer. Now just day to day, unflexed, you can see a very pleasant outline of shoulder, some mass in the upper arm, nice point on the elbow from which she has a powerful looking curve along her forearm up to her wrist and petite hand. But when she out and out flexed for me... the increase in size was boggling. I couldn't help but give it a squeeze (didn't bother to ask first, hehe) and... even though mine are bigger, they still have some give to them. Hers are hard, like stretched rope. She had both size and cut, and still such a cute childish smile, aw. I'd say maybe look at

" class="bbc_link" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">these arms for an idea of how her arms look.

Anyway, to the arm wrestling match.

First round: We both know the trick of pulling toward yourself to control the angle. I guess I did it first or more effectively, so the match ended pretty quick. Still, I was surprised at the amount I had to apply myself. I used to drop her without a thought, here I actually had to pull, and that surprised me enough that I probably looked a bit flustered.

Next round, we both agreed to push only laterally, hands staying in the middle. I couldn't believe it. It actually took me time to wear her arm down and get her wrist on the table! This was no challenge before, and keep in mind I am much stronger now. I think she presently and my past self would actually be a pretty even match. I applied my full strength, like imagine in the gym when you are trying to lift an amount you know to be your limit - I won't say I pushed past that limit, like when you are trying to set a new personal record, but I was floored that she made me have to go as far as I did.

Round 3: left hand. We are both right-handed, so no advantage here, right? Well, keep in mind what she said earlier about her muscles coming from "real work," while mine come from the gym. She is definitely more balanced than I am. We pushed. I resisted the natural urge to try to control her and pull her toward me for leverage, since that's what we agreed. In the old days, the thought would not have had time to cross my mind before I beat her. This time, I had plenty of time to remind myself of that while our hands stayed clasped in the center. No movement for a good 10-15 seconds. I wish I could tell you this was the day when she beat me, but gradually, gradually I inched her wrist down to the table, and as the angle of her elbow decreased her decline accelerated. But it took effort. Real effort. That is one strong girl. This round lasted maybe 45 seconds, but it felt like much longer. Especially since I had had the arrogance at the beginning of the challenge to not worry about the table full of cute girls off in the other corner of the coffee shop. I did not glance at them again after this.

I am hoping to manage a friendly, if brief, rekindling of our old physicality, since we're both leaving soon. So far she seems happy about our increasingly affectionate contact. We've had a long and emotional history, talk on the phone often, and I'm glad I never ended up losing her as a friend. As my best friend even now, maybe. But our relationship is definitively over. So maybe I'm misreading her body language. But god damn, I hope not. Maybe I can at least get her to try again at wrestling. I can tell you this much, I am not going to let her take me by surprise this time.

my ex was the best sex of my life. i am a built guy and i like my girls muscular also..nottoo much but pretty fit with 6 pack ect. anyways it was by far the best sex of my life and attraction.

Linda, you are beautiful! Keep up the hard work, babe!   ;D

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I know one 20y old swimmer girl who is definitely stronger than me. She's not that ripped but she has massive upper body muscles, her shoulders are broader than guys with same height (5'7 or something) and she has also pretty impressive biceps, probably around 13 inches. All those because the swimming but she has also naturally very big and strong legs (and awesome buttocks). She beat me in armwrestling pretty easily and I've seen her doing bicep curls big weights. She did bicep curls like 12x3 reps with 26 lbs (I think), I can't do that many reps. She is amazing.
 

Nobody better to get her to try than you!

My wife is in that category.  She is overweight but very, very muscular.  She beats most guys she knows in armwrestling and if she were to try real wrestling, she'd be very good at that too.  I am kind of evenly matched with her.

Married to a muscular athletic girl now, really thick muscular legs and defined arms. Kinda lazy though.  blessed with good genetics

Dated a sprinter before, 6 pack abs, 5'7 140 or so, but loved showing off how hard her abs were.  She laughed at punches lol