I'm new to these forums,so I'm not sure if the forums are intended for discussing earlier female bodybuilders;please correct me if they aren't.But anyway,my question is,which one of the early FBBs is your favorite one?I'm including ones such as Laverie Vallee(Charmion),Josephine Blatt(minerva),Katie Sandwina,Abbye(Pudgy)Stockton,etc.
Also Maria Callo (Ugliest face in bodybuilding by some distance for what it's worth) is married. I mean realistically what is she going to do, dump her husband (her agent too I believe) for some random fan? It's not realistic. As someone else said don't limit yourself. Women like you or I are attracted to are few and far between especially in our side of the world. Even joining a gym, it is very unlikely you will come across muscular women on a regular basis. I don't mean to burst your bubble or anything, but someone with a sexual attraction to female bodybuilders, especially in countries where competitive bodybuilders are rare has to understand that the chances of meeting and dating an FBB unless you're involved in the bodybuilding world yourself is less probable than being knocked down by a bus. I hope you do meet someone but as has been said don't rule out 'normal' women. I mean if it comes to it you can always fantasise about them being muscular when you're having sex with them.
I've told one or two people but I'd be very selective. The last person I told is normally very open about sexual conversations but he made a big joke of it. For me this is a fantasy and I come to this site to give me an outlet for this fantasy.
I know I'd never got a muscular partner for two reasons. 1. These women do not really exist much where I'm from 2. At the moment I'm pretty fat and while losing weight is on my agenda, getting the type of body I would need to attract a female muscle babe is not something I'd have the discipline for.
I'm lucky though in that I'm attracted to all sorts of women, I can't imagine only being attracted to muscular women, that must be awkward.
just wanted to ask this question.. seeing how there is so many different types of muscle for women. figure, gymnast, the girl next door, weight lifters, bodybuilders.. what would you want from a site that if you have everything under one domain. and what would you want the women to do? taking in part of no nudity..
Hello folks. I'd like to share my story of getting into female muscle fanhood with you, and have your opinion and company in this...! It feels good to speak up freely somewhere.. :-)
theres a girl on youtube who has a few flexing vids... average sized girl, 14-15yo, 5'4/114lbs... hers go from 10.25" to 11.75"... thats huge, 1.5" growth... they just pop when she flexes... bigger than mine, and i'm an adult... by the way, whats ur height, weight, u sound pretty skinny, altho i bet thats about the size i was at ur age...
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This is not the first useless thread you've made. If you're going to start a thread, please take more than 5 seconds to consider whether what you're posting is worthwhile (hint: if it's 15 words and no pictures, it's not).
From now on, I will just delete the threads you make that are useless rather than warning you.
(btw - it's reficuulous and a denial of our human nature to be ashamed of an attraction to muscular women. It goes down to our very basic human nature - the continuation of the species. The more physically fit the specimen - the more likely it will be a better canditate to care and provide for it's offspring. The tricky part is perpetuated by the god damn taboos that woman are not supposed to have muscle and men are. That's bullshit. Muscular women are gorgeous. They are also exploring their masculine side, just as mbb's are exploring their feminine side.)
Go with the flow baby - it's a natural as apple pie.
I'm just too much of a coward to deal with the taboo associated with this fetish. It's one thing to erase your internet history every day so no one finds out. No one has to come out in public and say what type of women you're attracted to, and, with the exception of talking to your guy friends about hot girls, it's not expected for you to do that. However, engaging in a relationship with a muscular woman is something that you just cannot hide. In a perfect world, I love the idea of bringing a muscular love interest into the picture among family and friends, but that, of course, would be in a Utopian state. I am nervous and even frightened about what the response could be. Realistically, I think my family would think it was weird but be accepting none the less. Among friends, I'm sure I'd get teased about it, but they'd be alright overall. However, I'm more worried about how I would change in their minds and what they'd be saying about me behind their back. That's not to say I'd be worried about if they're saying anything negative but rather that I'd be seen as a different person and they'd question me in other facets of my life as I've been keeping this from them for so long. I've been involved in relationships with non-muscular girls, but none of them got too serious. I enjoyed them romantically and physically, but I've never been infatuated with a girl like I have with some of the muscle girls out there.
So, that's part of the reason why I don't want this attraction to be public knowledge, and it more or less encompasses the embarrassment behind it. However, there's another factor at play for me keeping it secret, and it works more on a subconscious level. Most people like doing what they're not supposed to. There's a huge appeal behind it. The thought of myself keeping this secret of my attraction to muscular women but putting myself in situations that I could get caught excites me. I've questioned whether this is the main reason why I like muscular women, but I know it can't be as black and white as that because I could have chosen anything to be secretive about (being a secretive furry would do the trick as well, but I have no interest in doing that lol). In a way, I kind of see this as a very tame, but tweaked display of exhibitionism, which I think most people have to some degree. You often hear of people getting turned on by having sex in inappropriate places or while someone else is in another room right beside them, and mine is just sort of an amended version of that. While I believe this is a factor, I also think part of it comes from having this all pent up by not revealing it to anyone. This doesn't mean in a sexual way, but rather it being nice to know that I can put this idea out there that I've been living with my entire life without telling anyone. And I think this is the main reason I put myself in these situations, as it seems like it's almost necessary for me to retain my sanity haha. If I made this attraction completely public, I'm confident that getting a kick out of doing this would go away, whether or not the opportunity to do this would still hold up if I were to make this attraction known.
I've completely kept it under wraps with my family growing up, as they were too close to me. With friends, I don't take many risks with it, as rumors can spread like wildfire, particularly in high school, and if a guy gets dirt on you, he'll continuously chirp you about it. That's just the way it goes. When the topic of discussing hot women comes up, I usually just go along with whatever is said, regardless of whether I truly feel that way or not, especially if I'm in a big group of friends. If I'm in a one-on-one situation or something and a situation to discuss it presents itself, I'll occasionally put some feelers out, dropping vague hints, whether it's with a guy or girl. If I'm watching MMA with a buddy I might go with something like "Have you seen how big Ronda Rousey is now? Damn!" Or if I'm with a girl I can steer it towards tennis and say how Serena Williams is in incredible shape or something, or the same thing with a buff actress. Again, very vague, but it just presents the idea that I'm accepting of it. I haven't exactly gotten a welcoming invitation to open up about it though, and I can't even say how I'd react if I did.
Now, growing up I got into a phase where I liked to get it off my chest with people I don't know, or who I have confidence in that the word won't get out. I was still fairly cautious about how I did it though, as I don't want word to get out through someone with a mutual friend of mine. There were many ways that I did this, but they were all pretty stupid and I grew out of all of them. They involved stuff like buying female muscle magazines from stores, and, at the riskiest end of the spectrum, revealing it to a random one-night stand that I knew I'd never see again (who was not muscular at all), and seeing if she'd at least try flexing and taking on a dominant role. Yeah, that didn't go so well lol. I knew it was pathetic when I was doing this stuff and after going through that phase, I came to the realization that I was getting nothing out of it. The thrill came from the thought of exposing myself for being into something taboo, rather than from the act itself. Doing this kind of stuff just ended up feeling weird and stupid. Of course, maybe it was because it really was weird and stupid. My theory is that wanting to get the word out about the attraction is just a replacement for the lack of romantic and social involvement with someone I'm truly infatuated with. There's no way to solve this other than manning up and just trying for a relationship with a buff chick, but I haven't brought myself to that point yet. One thing I've considered doing was to go to a place I had no connection to and book a long session with a big FBB. For the first bit, I'd like to explore what it would be like to basically be out on a date with an FBB, as if she was any other girl I was taking out, because that would be my ideal situation: typical boyfriend taking on a more dominant role socially/romantically, and then getting tossed around and thoroughly dominated by her in bed haha. Of course, to really get my money's worth, I'd like to pack in all of the other usual session stuff as well (I've got my whole itinerary completely mapped out lol). I think this will just remain a fantasy though, as there are too many cons that I can think of. It would cost an absolute fortune, it would probably just leave me feeling unfulfilled and pathetic because I would be paying a woman to go out with me, and it would only create the illusion of a date... Even typing out the idea makes me facepalm.
I'm lucky in a sense. Before I met my current wife, I told no one at all about my like of female muscle. After I met my wife to be I took a brave/bold/stupid approach and just decided to tell her 3 months into our relation ship. Honestly, I expected something along the lines of that's gross, or I'll never be like that. She was actually very cool and was asking questions. First she thought I just meant athletic, but I explained it was more than that (ie bodybuilders). She had never really worked out before and I was totally falling for her.
Ten years later, we're married and she's got the lifting bug. She's muscular, but not a crazy workout fiend. She'll flex her arms and legs and she has very sizable muscles for a woman. Basically, very natural and in shape.
I'm never embarrassed just cautious on who and when I reveal my liking the muscular look to. If a woman is muscular and we start a conversation I will always work it in. That being said it can lead her to flex or maybe armwrestle.
Brian, you nailed it. Don't rock the boat and just realize that you are afflicted with sthenolagnia which, in and of itself, is nothing to be concerned about. Don't let the affliction consume you and you can lead an otherwise perfectly content and "normal" life. Sure has worked for me... ;D
Here's a rare and valuable opportunity to vent about this one because I am in a non-ideal situation ... but then whose is perfect?
I am very happily married to a fantastic woman and we have a delightful little girl. In a mainstream, Western World kind of way, I would rate my contentment with life by most measures as above average (well paid, satisfying job, loving family, nice house, I'm fit and healthy, have many good and supportive friends yada yada).
BUT ... there's a niggle, an itch - if you will. I adore the look of muscular women. My wife, wondeful though she is in so many ways and as much as I love her, is not of this body type and has no desire to be. On the occasions when she has found me viewing material online or in bodybuilding magazines, she has expressed negative views about this most definitely non-explicit material and also the view that she feels devalued as a non-athletic woman.
The reason I am clandestine and discreet about my "itch" is that the rest of my lifestyle is so sorted out and there are several very good reasons not to rock the boat.
My guess would be that if I were to be more open about this with other friends and family in my wife's presence, it would damage our marriage and I suspect that it would achieve little. It is said that if you want a marriage to last a lifetime, you have to work at it. Well, keeping my "itch" to myself is part of that work.
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I know I'd never got a muscular partner for two reasons.
1. These women do not really exist much where I'm from
2. At the moment I'm pretty fat and while losing weight is on my agenda, getting the type of body I would need to attract a female muscle babe is not something I'd have the discipline for.
I'm lucky though in that I'm attracted to all sorts of women, I can't imagine only being attracted to muscular women, that must be awkward.
by the way, whats ur height, weight, u sound pretty skinny, altho i bet thats about the size i was at ur age...
This is not the first useless thread you've made. If you're going to start a thread, please take more than 5 seconds to consider whether what you're posting is worthwhile (hint: if it's 15 words and no pictures, it's not).
From now on, I will just delete the threads you make that are useless rather than warning you.
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They're doing simply ANYthing to get rid of their pectoralis fat - and then, after breasts are gone, replacing that fat depots by silicone??? kidding?
Female bodybuilders are no women, they are bodybuilders!
they care for your money, not for you as a man!!!!
For your other wish: Yes, join a gym, and sooner or later you will find more muscular woman than everywhere else!
http://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=slide.cameraZoom
She have some arms and shoulders, don't you think?
Looks like more people find feminine muscles attractive
http://24.193.135.52/con.com/peopleSay/psayMSTR.html
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(btw - it's reficuulous and a denial of our human nature to be ashamed of an attraction
to muscular women. It goes down to our very basic human nature - the continuation of
the species. The more physically fit the specimen - the more likely it will be a better
canditate to care and provide for it's offspring. The tricky part is perpetuated by the
god damn taboos that woman are not supposed to have muscle and men are. That's
bullshit. Muscular women are gorgeous. They are also exploring their masculine side,
just as mbb's are exploring their feminine side.)
Go with the flow baby - it's a natural as apple pie.
So, that's part of the reason why I don't want this attraction to be public knowledge, and it more or less encompasses the embarrassment behind it. However, there's another factor at play for me keeping it secret, and it works more on a subconscious level. Most people like doing what they're not supposed to. There's a huge appeal behind it. The thought of myself keeping this secret of my attraction to muscular women but putting myself in situations that I could get caught excites me. I've questioned whether this is the main reason why I like muscular women, but I know it can't be as black and white as that because I could have chosen anything to be secretive about (being a secretive furry would do the trick as well, but I have no interest in doing that lol). In a way, I kind of see this as a very tame, but tweaked display of exhibitionism, which I think most people have to some degree. You often hear of people getting turned on by having sex in inappropriate places or while someone else is in another room right beside them, and mine is just sort of an amended version of that. While I believe this is a factor, I also think part of it comes from having this all pent up by not revealing it to anyone. This doesn't mean in a sexual way, but rather it being nice to know that I can put this idea out there that I've been living with my entire life without telling anyone. And I think this is the main reason I put myself in these situations, as it seems like it's almost necessary for me to retain my sanity haha. If I made this attraction completely public, I'm confident that getting a kick out of doing this would go away, whether or not the opportunity to do this would still hold up if I were to make this attraction known.
I've completely kept it under wraps with my family growing up, as they were too close to me. With friends, I don't take many risks with it, as rumors can spread like wildfire, particularly in high school, and if a guy gets dirt on you, he'll continuously chirp you about it. That's just the way it goes. When the topic of discussing hot women comes up, I usually just go along with whatever is said, regardless of whether I truly feel that way or not, especially if I'm in a big group of friends. If I'm in a one-on-one situation or something and a situation to discuss it presents itself, I'll occasionally put some feelers out, dropping vague hints, whether it's with a guy or girl. If I'm watching MMA with a buddy I might go with something like "Have you seen how big Ronda Rousey is now? Damn!" Or if I'm with a girl I can steer it towards tennis and say how Serena Williams is in incredible shape or something, or the same thing with a buff actress. Again, very vague, but it just presents the idea that I'm accepting of it. I haven't exactly gotten a welcoming invitation to open up about it though, and I can't even say how I'd react if I did.
Now, growing up I got into a phase where I liked to get it off my chest with people I don't know, or who I have confidence in that the word won't get out. I was still fairly cautious about how I did it though, as I don't want word to get out through someone with a mutual friend of mine. There were many ways that I did this, but they were all pretty stupid and I grew out of all of them. They involved stuff like buying female muscle magazines from stores, and, at the riskiest end of the spectrum, revealing it to a random one-night stand that I knew I'd never see again (who was not muscular at all), and seeing if she'd at least try flexing and taking on a dominant role. Yeah, that didn't go so well lol. I knew it was pathetic when I was doing this stuff and after going through that phase, I came to the realization that I was getting nothing out of it. The thrill came from the thought of exposing myself for being into something taboo, rather than from the act itself. Doing this kind of stuff just ended up feeling weird and stupid. Of course, maybe it was because it really was weird and stupid. My theory is that wanting to get the word out about the attraction is just a replacement for the lack of romantic and social involvement with someone I'm truly infatuated with. There's no way to solve this other than manning up and just trying for a relationship with a buff chick, but I haven't brought myself to that point yet. One thing I've considered doing was to go to a place I had no connection to and book a long session with a big FBB. For the first bit, I'd like to explore what it would be like to basically be out on a date with an FBB, as if she was any other girl I was taking out, because that would be my ideal situation: typical boyfriend taking on a more dominant role socially/romantically, and then getting tossed around and thoroughly dominated by her in bed haha. Of course, to really get my money's worth, I'd like to pack in all of the other usual session stuff as well (I've got my whole itinerary completely mapped out lol). I think this will just remain a fantasy though, as there are too many cons that I can think of. It would cost an absolute fortune, it would probably just leave me feeling unfulfilled and pathetic because I would be paying a woman to go out with me, and it would only create the illusion of a date... Even typing out the idea makes me facepalm.
Ten years later, we're married and she's got the lifting bug. She's muscular, but not a crazy workout fiend. She'll flex her arms and legs and she has very sizable muscles for a woman. Basically, very natural and in shape.
I am very happily married to a fantastic woman and we have a delightful little girl. In a mainstream, Western World kind of way, I would rate my contentment with life by most measures as above average (well paid, satisfying job, loving family, nice house, I'm fit and healthy, have many good and supportive friends yada yada).
BUT ... there's a niggle, an itch - if you will. I adore the look of muscular women. My wife, wondeful though she is in so many ways and as much as I love her, is not of this body type and has no desire to be. On the occasions when she has found me viewing material online or in bodybuilding magazines, she has expressed negative views about this most definitely non-explicit material and also the view that she feels devalued as a non-athletic woman.
The reason I am clandestine and discreet about my "itch" is that the rest of my lifestyle is so sorted out and there are several very good reasons not to rock the boat.
My guess would be that if I were to be more open about this with other friends and family in my wife's presence, it would damage our marriage and I suspect that it would achieve little. It is said that if you want a marriage to last a lifetime, you have to work at it. Well, keeping my "itch" to myself is part of that work.
Writing this has been quite cathartic.
Reactions to this post are welcome.