What is your idea of a muscular woman? I would like to share mine. She should have short hair and a flat chest. If wearing any clothing, she should wear a t-shirt and Daisy Dukes. Her muscles should be well defined and some vein should be shown.
I've been consumed with lust for muscular women ever since I saw "Skin Deep" way back in the 80s in the movie theatre and had a throbbing hard on for the next ten minutes after seeing Raye Hollit's magnificent back and hard biceps. I've only told ever told very few people, and I didn't even tell my wife until one day she checked out my browser history (she later apologized) and saw that I was checking out Yvette Bova's site. (side note: I love really big muscular black women most of all.)
But it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to us. From me admitting my desires we ended up discussing our own sexual preferences in greater detail, and eventually opened up our relationship and started swinging. Sex parties, private orgies and fun with other couples has actually made our relationship stronger and or sex lives amazing. Unfortunately I still haven't experienced a muscular woman, but she's always on the lookout for me, and I've no doubt it'll happen eventually. :)
But would I tell people at work that I love giant biceps, huge thighs, and hard abs on a tough, hot female bodybuilder? Not on your life. :)
You surely know the problem: You like girls with muscle, it´s difficult to find such a girl and nobody understand your desire. I will explain my thougts/situation a little bit and than i would be glad, if you give me a feedback and tell me your opinion. I am at the age of 24, i have a healthy lifestyle and im athletic. I would almost say i am not so unattractive at all. In the last few years I have dated some girls and i´ve had short relationships with some of them. These girls were slim and most people would say they were attractive. But i still was unhappy because the problem is, that to me only fitness girls with muscle are really attractive ... i mean no fbb! I was always dreaminig of a fitness girl with abs, even during my relationship. So finally i am looking for a girlfriend with muscle and sixpack, that i propaply never find, for more than 6 years. It is difficult to explain and maybe it is superficial, but i cant imagine, that a girl without muscles and sixpack can ever make me really happy!
Now I am interessted in your opinion and would like to know:
- Have you accepted, that you never find your dreamgirl with a sixpack or whatever and so you are in a relationship or in marriage with a girl you like, but without muscle and sixpack? - Are you still looking for your dreamgirl with sixpack? And during you are looking for that girl, do you have some relationships with other "average" girls? - Did you try to motivate your girlfriend to do sport and gain some muscles? - Or have you already found the right fitness girl, who fulfilled your dreams?
No I don't think a fbb can be too muscular - however, they can be, and often are too manly. 2 very different things. Personally, I find a big square jaw, over plumped lips, and a deep voice as very unattractive, even if the muscles aren't so big. However, get a cute girl, with a nice girly hip sway, and feminine mannerism, and if she had the most gargantuan biceps it would not be too much.
as some others have mentioned, femuscle admiration is not all alike. there is a HUGE difference between natural and enhanced levels. if you only like fit muscular females like Kiana there's no real reason to feel uncomfortable about "coming out" about it. especially nowadays with the whole Instagram craze, Xfit, Insanity Workout, etc. it's very much accepted and considered "cool" for a female to be strong and in-shape. not many ppl regardless of what turns them on sexually behind closed doors walk around everywhere talking about it, but probably the biggest turn-on for most in general is a fit hard body whether male or female. this is why every other infomercial is about the latest device or workout to get six-pack abs or arms/buns of steel.
now if you like the extremes that's a whole other story and can understand how and why you may be uncomfortable. also, because of the association to the extreme levels it has created a negative stigma which has effected the entire femuscle admiration situation as a whole... i.e. women lifting weights and getting muscular get associated with "those huge roid chicks"..so in that respect can understand how even those who just like naturally fit females might also have been uncomfortable about coming out before...however, fortunately more and more are becoming knowledgeable about the differences and all the positive associations are starting to override the negative ones.
"Does it really make a difference whether you eat lots of carbs or fats?" Everything that I've ever read/noticed about this is that it gets down to the individual's own metabolism. Everyone is a bit different in this aspect, consequently, it will vary according to how your own body metabolizes the fats and carbs.
I know I'm replying to an old post, but this is a topic I've thought a lot about too .....
For starters, I disagree with what's quoted, below. The fact is, yes, we do see a lot more women trying to prove they're "equal to a man in every way", ever since the women's liberation movement. And at the same time, I think more men (especially the younger ones, who have been through the modern educational system) are open-minded to letting women do traditionally male roles. But there are genetic limitations here which dictate that as an absolute, men are going to be stronger than women. (Just check the world's records for any popular lift in bodybuilding or powerlifting. In every documented one, a man holds the record for lifting an amount considerably greater than any women's record for the same lift.)
Now, none of this means women aren't capable of pretty impressive strength. And I think one thing we're witnessing today are more women willing to work out regularly and actually build up that strength, versus being content not to really try. I think an increasing number of guys have an attitude more like my own, where I want to see a woman show me how strong she is, instead of discouraging it.
Women also have more of the type of muscle fibers conducive to endurance than men have. So all else being equal, a woman stands a good chance of being able to outlast a guy at a given exercise before tiring out.
Maybe it ruins some people's fantasies to state that men can lift more total weight than women? But realistically, there are a lot of women out there with enough leg strength to leg press between 900 and 1300lbs. for reps. There might be guys doing as much as 2,000lbs. -- but so what? A woman who can push that 900-1300lbs. can lift the back end of a small car off the ground, possibly even while an average size guy sits on the trunk and goes along for the ride. A lot of those "Universal" machines in clubhouse gyms only have about 900lbs. of weights in their whole stack. So not only can these women leg press the full stack on those machines, but they might gladly invite you to stand on the stack to add some more weight to it.
Far more women out there might only be capable of leg pressing, say 400lbs., and may be able to lift a barbell of say, 200-225lbs. off the ground but only hold it up at about waist height. (I give that example because I have a female friend that fits that description.) I know first-hand that's plenty of strength so my 190lb. self can jump up on her back and not even have to make any effort to hold myself up after that. She has plenty of grip strength to wrap her arms under my legs and support me. And her legs are strong enough that she can still jump several inches off the ground while carrying me. (We used to play around occasionally with her "bunny hopping" across the basement floor with me riding her.)
That's why I say ... just HOW strong does a woman have to be, to be impressive?
I my opinion i am totally agree with"Women are not supposed to be strong and powerful, and the sight of one makes sexually repressed men very uneasy. This is a good thing. It forces us to consider the similarities between the sexes and move away from the ridiculous stereotypes pass down through the ages."
Time to wake up - The coming wave of powerful women is sexy, strong, powerful yet very benevolent and loving. They don’t wear latex, carry whips and seek to punish. On the contrary - they are nurturing, and caring, but undoubtedly in charge. Well-developed muscles are the outward display of their strength, which serves to protect an inner softness and femininity. Honesty about their sexual and sensual needs makes them blunt and efficient leaders. They have nothing to hide and nothing to be ashamed of. Many are attracted to both sexes, which they share openly about as well.
My wife kind of knows i'm attracted to muscular women, but not the degree to which i am. in fact, I'm obsessed, more than attracted. Luckily, my wife is relatively muscular, strong and in good shape. She has amazing genetics because she seldom works out. On the occasions when she starts working out, the muscles harden and grow almost instantly. She's not interested in having too prominent muscles - if she was she'd look incredible in a short time.
I look at all womens arms, but never comment.
i've always been interested in muscles on girls, even before I found it attractive. I think it started from when my little sister used to flex her biceps all the time. I was fascinated because as far as I knew, girls didn't, or weren't supposed to have bulging biceps. My main reaction was jealousy, resentment. "How dare my little sister get muscles before me. How embarrassing; I must not let anyone else notice." I found myself obsessively checking out her muscles to make sure they didn't get bigger then mine. When they did get bigger then mine, I was obsessively checking them out to make sure they didn't get too much bigger then mine. She caught me sneaking a look sometimes, and laughed.
I still look at girls'/women's arms, but now it's because I just love them.
Being a girl, I think if you are close to her, you should tell her and if she judges you for it, shes not worth your time and if she really cares about you, she wont care that you have a muscle fetish! Maybe she will even think its cool! I love muscles! Daphne xoxo
Kudos to her, really. That is some serious TRUE LOVE. Not many people would go against the stereotyped world and change the way they look permanently for the sake of someone beloved.
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But it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to us. From me admitting my desires we ended up discussing our own sexual preferences in greater detail, and eventually opened up our relationship and started swinging. Sex parties, private orgies and fun with other couples has actually made our relationship stronger and or sex lives amazing. Unfortunately I still haven't experienced a muscular woman, but she's always on the lookout for me, and I've no doubt it'll happen eventually. :)
But would I tell people at work that I love giant biceps, huge thighs, and hard abs on a tough, hot female bodybuilder? Not on your life. :)
You surely know the problem: You like girls with muscle, it´s difficult to find such a girl and nobody understand your desire. I will explain my thougts/situation a little bit and than i would be glad, if you give me a feedback and tell me your opinion.
I am at the age of 24, i have a healthy lifestyle and im athletic. I would almost say i am not so unattractive at all.
In the last few years I have dated some girls and i´ve had short relationships with some of them. These girls were slim and most people would say they were attractive. But i still was unhappy because the problem is, that to me only fitness girls with muscle are really attractive ... i mean no fbb! I was always dreaminig of a fitness girl with abs, even during my relationship. So finally i am looking for a girlfriend with muscle and sixpack, that i propaply never find, for more than 6 years. It is difficult to explain and maybe it is superficial, but i cant imagine, that a girl without muscles and sixpack can ever make me really happy!
Now I am interessted in your opinion and would like to know:
- Have you accepted, that you never find your dreamgirl with a sixpack or whatever and so you are in a relationship or in marriage with a girl you like, but without muscle and sixpack?
- Are you still looking for your dreamgirl with sixpack? And during you are looking for that girl, do you have some relationships with other "average" girls?
- Did you try to motivate your girlfriend to do sport and gain some muscles?
- Or have you already found the right fitness girl, who fulfilled your dreams?
Best regards!
Personally, I find a big square jaw, over plumped lips, and a deep voice as very unattractive, even if the muscles aren't so big. However, get a cute girl, with a nice girly hip sway, and feminine mannerism, and if she had the most gargantuan biceps it would not be too much.
now if you like the extremes that's a whole other story and can understand how and why you may be uncomfortable. also, because of the association to the extreme levels it has created a negative stigma which has effected the entire femuscle admiration situation as a whole... i.e. women lifting weights and getting muscular get associated with "those huge roid chicks"..so in that respect can understand how even those who just like naturally fit females might also have been uncomfortable about coming out before...however, fortunately more and more are becoming knowledgeable about the differences and all the positive associations are starting to override the negative ones.
http://www.realfemalebodybuilding.com/real-female-bodybuilding-news/can-female-bodybuilders-get-too-muscular-to-win-the-insane-muscularity-of-patty-corbett-vs-the-perfect-package-of-shannon-courtney.html
Everything that I've ever read/noticed about this is that it gets down to the individual's own metabolism. Everyone is a bit different in this aspect, consequently, it will vary according to how your own body metabolizes the fats and carbs.
Stronger than the average man ;)
For starters, I disagree with what's quoted, below. The fact is, yes, we do see a lot more women trying to prove they're "equal to a man in every way", ever since the women's liberation movement. And at the same time, I think more men (especially the younger ones, who have been through the modern educational system) are open-minded to letting women do traditionally male roles. But there are genetic limitations here which dictate that as an absolute, men are going to be stronger than women. (Just check the world's records for any popular lift in bodybuilding or powerlifting. In every documented one, a man holds the record for lifting an amount considerably greater than any women's record for the same lift.)
Now, none of this means women aren't capable of pretty impressive strength. And I think one thing we're witnessing today are more women willing to work out regularly and actually build up that strength, versus being content not to really try. I think an increasing number of guys have an attitude more like my own, where I want to see a woman show me how strong she is, instead of discouraging it.
Women also have more of the type of muscle fibers conducive to endurance than men have. So all else being equal, a woman stands a good chance of being able to outlast a guy at a given exercise before tiring out.
Maybe it ruins some people's fantasies to state that men can lift more total weight than women? But realistically, there are a lot of women out there with enough leg strength to leg press between 900 and 1300lbs. for reps. There might be guys doing as much as 2,000lbs. -- but so what? A woman who can push that 900-1300lbs. can lift the back end of a small car off the ground, possibly even while an average size guy sits on the trunk and goes along for the ride. A lot of those "Universal" machines in clubhouse gyms only have about 900lbs. of weights in their whole stack. So not only can these women leg press the full stack on those machines, but they might gladly invite you to stand on the stack to add some more weight to it.
Far more women out there might only be capable of leg pressing, say 400lbs., and may be able to lift a barbell of say, 200-225lbs. off the ground but only hold it up at about waist height. (I give that example because I have a female friend that fits that description.) I know first-hand that's plenty of strength so my 190lb. self can jump up on her back and not even have to make any effort to hold myself up after that. She has plenty of grip strength to wrap her arms under my legs and support me. And her legs are strong enough that she can still jump several inches off the ground while carrying me. (We used to play around occasionally with her "bunny hopping" across the basement floor with me riding her.)
That's why I say ... just HOW strong does a woman have to be, to be impressive?
http://www.realfemalebodybuilding.com/fitness/the-spice-curls-or-how-the-spice-girls-geri-halliwell-mel-b-and-mel-c-packed-on-the-muscle.html
Luckily, my wife is relatively muscular, strong and in good shape. She has amazing genetics because she seldom works out. On the occasions when she starts working out, the muscles harden and grow almost instantly. She's not interested in having too prominent muscles - if she was she'd look incredible in a short time.
I look at all womens arms, but never comment.
i've always been interested in muscles on girls, even before I found it attractive.
I think it started from when my little sister used to flex her biceps all the time. I was fascinated because as far as I knew, girls didn't, or weren't supposed to have bulging biceps. My main reaction was jealousy, resentment. "How dare my little sister get muscles before me. How embarrassing; I must not let anyone else notice." I found myself obsessively checking out her muscles to make sure they didn't get bigger then mine. When they did get bigger then mine, I was obsessively checking them out to make sure they didn't get too much bigger then mine. She caught me sneaking a look sometimes, and laughed.
I still look at girls'/women's arms, but now it's because I just love them.
Daphne xoxo
Kudos to her, really. That is some serious TRUE LOVE. Not many people would go against the stereotyped world and change the way they look permanently for the sake of someone beloved.