Came across Marcie Simmons' channel few years back, and I remembered she adressed the issue in some videos. Here is a link to one of them https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1C6bdh8U2I
I am not up-to-date, but by the time the video wa posted she was an active competitor.
How many male bodybuilders do you know that pay for sessions with FBB's? The male bodybuilders are likely getting together with their female counterparts sexually behind closed doors at competitions, you just never hear about it. MBB's are definitely not schmoes because if they desire it, they probably are hooking up with any single FBB's at the shows they both are a part of. This is a reasoned guess based on human nature, nothing more.
The question was "Can male bodybuilders be schmoes or does their muscular lifestyle preclude them from this designation?" The answer is still yes. Just because it is not common knowledge that male BB's pay for sessions, does not mean it does not happen. Maybe ask a few sessionettes for their view. Possibly fewer than non bodybuilders but unlikely that it is non existant. You are not descriping Schmoe behavour when you talk about hook ups with single FBB's. There is a difference between hooking up with an FBB and paying for favours. So if a male BB pays for it, he is a schmoe. I see no reason why an FBB would not see a male BB as a client as well as a non male BB. Just because he trains in a gym does not exclude him from being a client and so a schmoe.
I used to go to the gym but I stopped ever since the pandemic started and I haven't come back since. I don't really feel the difference, I wasn't making any progress anyways.
This would have been better as "how would you feel about dating a stronger woman than you?" with options ranging from "That is an absolute requirement for me" to "never" as well as a few in between. Also an "other" option to capture edge cases.
I recently told my friend about it. but that guy is very "open". he was already giving me too many details about his sex life. he was talking about prostitutes and then i said. well i don't really think it's worth the money. but i would be willing to pay a lot for women with certain skills and body type. and then i just said i want to be bodyscissored by a fbb. My other friends never talk about that stuff to me he is a hippie.
I do some form of exercise most days, probably average 6 days a week. I go to the gym, run, cycle (road and mountain bike). Some days I'll do 2 things, depending on what's on, the weather, work, social commitments etc. Partner does gym and pilates, usually averages about 4 days a week (her kids are younger than mine so require more supervision!). Don;t watch diet at all, have a pretty fast metabolism; plus I really like good food, beer and wine haha.
5 days,different body parts each day,use only dumbbells and a curling bar,1,000 steps on a step machine 5 days,all at home,only do it to stay in softball shape and to look in fairly decent shape,i do the steps so I can eat what I want
I don't hide it but I don't volunteer the information either. If it never comes up I'm perfectly fine with that. But if it did I'd give my honest opinion.
Can male bodybuilders be schmoes or does their muscular lifestyle preclude them from this designation?
I think they can be. I consider a “schmoe” to be someone who has terrible social skills and can’t seem to separate their fetish from the person. Like a lot of the stuff that muscular women hear from “admirers” is just cringe. I remember a thread awhile back talking about people who have had bad experiences with FBBs, and in almost every case, it was because said person was expressing clearly fetishistic questions and comments towards them.
Male bodybuilders can be schmoes, but since they also train themselves, I think they’re less likely to ask those dumb fetish questions (like the “I bet you can beat guys up!” comments)
This allows some wiggle room... Most of the strong women on this site are rather compact in reality. While they might be conditioned well enough to out-bench-squat-curl-etc, their man, a 5'6 165 lb woman wouldn't draw that much attention walking with an out-of-shape 6' 220 lb man. So not really an ego smasher for most dudes, unless perhaps at a beach or something.
I think you need to just skip the strength metric and go with bigger/thicker/taller.
In which case, I've already been there and it was awesome.
I prefer the dictionary definition, not the small world definition. If you wanted to use it to describe a man interacting with a woman it would be the guy who is persistently obtuse while hitting on them. Think Johnny Bravo
I would say yes to that. Again, definition of a schmoe. If you are a bodybuilder and date normally an FBB, I would not say he is a schmoe. As soon as he starts sessioning with other FBB's and is not in a relationship with them / pays for services and time, surely he is a schmoe?
How many male bodybuilders do you know that pay for sessions with FBB's? The male bodybuilders are likely getting together with their female counterparts sexually behind closed doors at competitions, you just never hear about it. MBB's are definitely not schmoes because if they desire it, they probably are hooking up with any single FBB's at the shows they both are a part of. This is a reasoned guess based on human nature, nothing more.
This allows some wiggle room... Most of the strong women on this site are rather compact in reality. While they might be conditioned well enough to out-bench-squat-curl-etc, their man, a 5'6 165 lb woman wouldn't draw that much attention walking with an out-of-shape 6' 220 lb man. So not really an ego smasher for most dudes, unless perhaps at a beach or something.
I think you need to just skip the strength metric and go with bigger/thicker/taller.
In which case, I've already been there and it was awesome.
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Came across Marcie Simmons' channel few years back, and I remembered she adressed the issue in some videos. Here is a link to one of them https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1C6bdh8U2I
I am not up-to-date, but by the time the video wa posted she was an active competitor.
The question was "Can male bodybuilders be schmoes or does their muscular lifestyle preclude them from this designation?" The answer is still yes. Just because it is not common knowledge that male BB's pay for sessions, does not mean it does not happen. Maybe ask a few sessionettes for their view. Possibly fewer than non bodybuilders but unlikely that it is non existant. You are not descriping Schmoe behavour when you talk about hook ups with single FBB's. There is a difference between hooking up with an FBB and paying for favours. So if a male BB pays for it, he is a schmoe. I see no reason why an FBB would not see a male BB as a client as well as a non male BB. Just because he trains in a gym does not exclude him from being a client and so a schmoe.
I used to go to the gym but I stopped ever since the pandemic started and I haven't come back since. I don't really feel the difference, I wasn't making any progress anyways.
This would have been better as "how would you feel about dating a stronger woman than you?" with options ranging from "That is an absolute requirement for me" to "never" as well as a few in between. Also an "other" option to capture edge cases.
I recently told my friend about it. but that guy is very "open". he was already giving me too many details about his sex life. he was talking about prostitutes and then i said. well i don't really think it's worth the money. but i would be willing to pay a lot for women with certain skills and body type. and then i just said i want to be bodyscissored by a fbb. My other friends never talk about that stuff to me he is a hippie.
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I do some form of exercise most days, probably average 6 days a week. I go to the gym, run, cycle (road and mountain bike). Some days I'll do 2 things, depending on what's on, the weather, work, social commitments etc. Partner does gym and pilates, usually averages about 4 days a week (her kids are younger than mine so require more supervision!). Don;t watch diet at all, have a pretty fast metabolism; plus I really like good food, beer and wine haha.
5 days,different body parts each day,use only dumbbells and a curling bar,1,000 steps on a step machine 5 days,all at home,only do it to stay in softball shape and to look in fairly decent shape,i do the steps so I can eat what I want
Look on the site for pictures of Emily Dadmun.
I know ballet dancing isn't a sport, but they have great legs.
3-5 days weight training and cardio
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The most impressive to me was Wendy Fortino, she definitely cranked it up a few levels, after several years of only slight improvement.
I think they can be. I consider a “schmoe” to be someone who has terrible social skills and can’t seem to separate their fetish from the person. Like a lot of the stuff that muscular women hear from “admirers” is just cringe. I remember a thread awhile back talking about people who have had bad experiences with FBBs, and in almost every case, it was because said person was expressing clearly fetishistic questions and comments towards them.
Male bodybuilders can be schmoes, but since they also train themselves, I think they’re less likely to ask those dumb fetish questions (like the “I bet you can beat guys up!” comments)
Good point
I train 3 to 5 times a week mostly high intensity. Trying to do strenght as well from time to time
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Shawn Wayans was married Ursula Alberto; borderline Schmoe
I prefer the dictionary definition, not the small world definition. If you wanted to use it to describe a man interacting with a woman it would be the guy who is persistently obtuse while hitting on them. Think Johnny Bravo
damn she got ripped
How many male bodybuilders do you know that pay for sessions with FBB's? The male bodybuilders are likely getting together with their female counterparts sexually behind closed doors at competitions, you just never hear about it. MBB's are definitely not schmoes because if they desire it, they probably are hooking up with any single FBB's at the shows they both are a part of. This is a reasoned guess based on human nature, nothing more.
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This allows some wiggle room... Most of the strong women on this site are rather compact in reality. While they might be conditioned well enough to out-bench-squat-curl-etc, their man, a 5'6 165 lb woman wouldn't draw that much attention walking with an out-of-shape 6' 220 lb man. So not really an ego smasher for most dudes, unless perhaps at a beach or something.
I think you need to just skip the strength metric and go with bigger/thicker/taller.
In which case, I've already been there and it was awesome.
You lucky dawg