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Are you turned on by violence?

May 03, 2024 - permalink

I totally love stories and pictures of women who out do men in feats of strength, or in things where you would not expect the woman to dominate. I am not really a fan of feminine violence, especially when the guy did nothing to earn it. I have written a couple of stories in which women beat the crap out of men who had raped or otherwise hurt women or girls, and I think when the reader or viewer feels the man deserves it, violence in the form of unexpected domination is acceptable and can be a turn-on. The greatest turn on for me is a "girl next door" type who gets incredibly (impossibly) strong and dominates obnoxious men. Or the wife who gos from weak to really strong and being able to dominate her husband.

May 05, 2024 - permalink

Though I am not a fan of violence, a couple of stories from SeldomLasts were very well written. One was about this FBB who meets a muscle admirer in the lift and beats him to death; then there was one where the FBB wastes his boyfriend's wife

May 05, 2024 - permalink

I don't hate "empowered woman" fight scenes, but I prefer it when the violence is the slapstick kind, that isn't trying to "say something."

But I feel the same way when it's men and violence, so that doesn't make me feel like a sexist!

May 05, 2024 - permalink

I'm gonna say yes to the question in general. I wrote a story about a raging muscle psychopath with as much craziness as I can think of. I think it's hot a woman is so jacked she can and does inflict pain.

Though I suppose irl it wouldn't be as sexy, but who knows? I like to think I have a high pain tolerance.

May 06, 2024 - permalink

Some people are incapable of rational intellectual discussions and have to resort to virtue signaling as they maybe afraid of being labeled something negative.

The OP raised an important point. There is a strong (no pun intended) connection between violence or helplessness and sex this is why there are terms sub and dom.

I for one love to be dominated physically by a much bigger woman. However I would never dream of being violent against a woman, it actually turns me off and I would feel horrible. I love the women empowerment movement not because is cool or because the left woke mobs wants me to embrace it, but because I actually like it because of my fetish.

Now to women wanting to be dominated or overpowered. This is sadly more common than I thought which might explain a lot of my bad experiences dating women. They sense I won't dominate them since I'm very unaggressive. Then hearing E. Jean Carroll say in an interview that she finds "rape to be sexy". See the interview for yourself, CNN had to cut to a commercial it was so bad and against their narrative.

We live in a strange time where it is nearly impossible to have honest conversations like this without someone wanting to virtue signal.

May 06, 2024 - permalink

Some people are incapable of rational intellectual discussions and have to resort to virtue signaling as they maybe afraid of being labeled something negative.

The OP raised an important point. There is a strong (no pun intended) connection between violence or helplessness and sex this is why there are terms sub and dom.

I for one love to be dominated physically by a much bigger woman. However I would never dream of being violent against a woman, it actually turns me off and I would feel horrible. I love the women empowerment movement not because is cool or because the left woke mobs wants me to embrace it, but because I actually like it because of my fetish.

Now to women wanting to be dominated or overpowered. This is sadly more common than I thought which might explain a lot of my bad experiences dating women. They sense I won't dominate them since I'm very unaggressive. Then hearing E. Jean Carroll say in an interview that she finds "rape to be sexy". See the interview for yourself, CNN had to cut to a commercial it was so bad and against their narrative.

We live in a strange time where it is nearly impossible to have honest conversations like this without someone wanting to virtue signal.

But it IS a fact that a lot of women want to be led, dominated, as part of our larger remit of protecting and providing for them. Not a popular opinion, but remember that for the first 99% of our species existence, we didn't marry, we dragged women to the cave and that was that. Civilization as we know it has only been around for the last 1%, and THAT featured plenty of rapes / dominance etc. You're right, those are not popular facts, but their current unpopularity doesn't make them any less factual.

May 06, 2024 - permalink

Roleplay with a strong women showing what she is capable of, in all respect, yes, and this is not violence by definitio . Just a game. Violence is definitely off

May 06, 2024 - permalink

Some people are incapable of rational intellectual discussions and have to resort to virtue signaling as they maybe afraid of being labeled something negative.

The OP raised an important point. There is a strong (no pun intended) connection between violence or helplessness and sex this is why there are terms sub and dom.

I for one love to be dominated physically by a much bigger woman. However I would never dream of being violent against a woman, it actually turns me off and I would feel horrible. I love the women empowerment movement not because is cool or because the left woke mobs wants me to embrace it, but because I actually like it because of my fetish.

Now to women wanting to be dominated or overpowered. This is sadly more common than I thought which might explain a lot of my bad experiences dating women. They sense I won't dominate them since I'm very unaggressive. Then hearing E. Jean Carroll say in an interview that she finds "rape to be sexy". See the interview for yourself, CNN had to cut to a commercial it was so bad and against their narrative.

We live in a strange time where it is nearly impossible to have honest conversations like this without someone wanting to virtue signal.

I have been in the Kink world in my city and there are actually a pretty sizable number of dominant women, not including pro-dommes, out there. Yes, submissive women outnumber dominant women, but there are more of the latter than you might think.

The reason that they seem so rare in the online world, and why there are so many "sub" men in contrast (intentionally putting that in quotes,) is that dominant women don't often want to loudly advertise it because if they do, they get FLOODED with messages from "sub" men, and many get to the point where they turn off DMs or stop promoting it due to fatigue of dealing with all that. You have a much better shot finding them at in=person kink events.

And in regards to "sub" men, a common complaint I have heard from dominant women is that those men aren't really submissive at all. Rather, they want someone to cater towards their own fetishes (essentially topping from the bottom or looking for what's called a "Service Top,") without actually practicing true submission. I would actually argue that there aren't as many true sub men out there as compared to "bottoms" who want to top from that position.

May 07, 2024 - permalink

Would like to be dominated, but not to the point of actual violence. I guess I find it hot to an extent knowing that she could in theory really hurt me.

In stories, while I do find "roid rage" and the like super hot, not exactly a fan of bloody violence or extreme cruelty. Usually I prefer fantasies where the woman in question is more of a dominant, powerful, but ultimately loving defender that is willing to fight if need be. Not just randomly beat the crap out of men because they're weak and she's strong.

May 08, 2024 - permalink

Would like to be dominated, but not to the point of actual violence. I guess I find it hot to an extent knowing that she could in theory really hurt me.

In stories, while I do find "roid rage" and the like super hot, not exactly a fan of bloody violence or extreme cruelty. Usually I prefer fantasies where the woman in question is more of a dominant, powerful, but ultimately loving defender that is willing to fight if need be. Not just randomly beat the crap out of men because they're weak and she's strong.

Similar case for me. Broken bones are an absolute no-no, and blood has to be limited to small cuts with the wound being nursed. If I eventually become the stronger one (which I aspire to train towards), I would like to become the dominant one and talk about how it feels with my partner about power, sex, and control as part of deepening our connection.

Nov 04, 2024 - permalink

Yes, I am turned on by that (but only to a certain degree). Which is funny because in real life violence against people (or animals) normaly makes my realy angry. But as soon as a muscular woman and a male wimp are involved it gives me a huge boner. Not just in fantasy stories but also in real life (which is very rare of course but there are some examples I read about). My taste is kinda fucked up I guess, lol. Btw I always enjoyed the tons of violent fetish stories on thevalkyrie.com. Great stuff! Too bad that it is gone now.

Yeah especially against animals, so I agree with you.

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Nov 18, 2024 - permalink

Only if the chick is bigger and stronger than me 🥵😩😶‍🌫️😴

5 days ago - permalink

God, YES, I'm turned on by violence.

I still remember the last time I found a kind of muscular prostitute in my town. She wasn't huge, but well defined and hard-looking. She spent half an hour slapping me, calling me her slave and putting on her best scary face. I remember when she grabbed me by the neck, so I was unable to breathe, and I worshipped the muscle on the same arm that was choking me. Caressing her bicep while she choked me half to unconsciousness. Wonderful stuff.

She was sort of small, so I can't even imagine what a proper physique-level FBB could do to me.

5 days ago - permalink

I must admit I've read some erotic stories with muscle women involving extreme violence/gore.

I'm 0% attracted to that in real life, and I prefer submissive chicks - but as a fantasy yes I've read some of those stories.

The best one I can remember was called 'Muscles of Mercy', back at Brawna (old website, RIP).

I found an archive that has the story, but don't read on a full stomach! https://amaz0ns.com/forums/topic/the-muscles-...

You've been warned

5 days ago - permalink

Yes but only fake violence as on TV or acted out. Art as well with cartoon or comic characters. I'm fine with it if nobody gets hurt and love a really lopsided domination by a muscle girl. That is especially true vs a cocky weaker girl. I posted a few of mine in the non nude fantasy art section a ways back. My initial interest in strong women was from the female boxer in Popeye who knocked Olive out before the spinach. It grew from there.

5 days ago - edited 5 days ago - permalink

Dominance: yes. Violence: no.

5 days ago - permalink

Being turned on by giving and receiving real violence seems to be confined to the dark triad individuals. To me, completely experiencing a muscular woman must include her strength. I enjoy the give and take and tight contact of playful mixed wrestling. She can squeeze or hold firmly to showcase her strength or to immobilize but never to the point of serious pain.

4 days ago - permalink

Chose sometimes because it depends on the type of violence. I’m a lover of mixed wrestling clips but I hardly watch them anymore because they’ve really gone to shit. They just don’t produce them like they use to about 20 years ago. These days 9/10 times the description will be completely false for what is actually seen in the clip. Club Q is the only thing I’m looking to get of my hands on. But I steer clear of the ball-busting, punching, kicking, rib cage cracking, high heel torture, etc. Even I have limits.

4 days ago - permalink

@zig563…… You hit the nail on the head…. That Popeye episode where The muscular April North beats up Oylive in front of Popyee.. I was 8 years old on got an instant hard on….. The thought of muscular woman who can fight is such a such a turn on….. I especially like the photo and videos of Rin Nakai on this site…she is the perfect combination of Muscle and Fighting skills and loves to Flex before and after a fight…..

4 days ago - permalink

If its a woman vs woman fist fight from a movie then yes, like Shannon Tweed in shadow warriors, or when jamie lee curtis gets punched in the face by Tia Carrere in true lies .

4 days ago - permalink

Real violence? Or just "wrestling" violence? Because if it's playful wrestling then sure, otherwise no.

4 days ago - permalink

I'm turned on by aggression, but not abuse.

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