If you were in a relationship, would you still continue using this site?

I ask this because I’ve seen people who have a gf/wife (assuming they aren’t lying) still use this site which intrigues me. I personally wouldn’t because I feel that would be a form of cheating in some aspects. I wanna see what you guys think though.

yes, but only because i'm addicted. i don't want to be here, ideally.

yes, but only because i'm addicted. i don't want to be here, ideally.

Are you me? I come and go every year to see if this site improves at all mainly but I’ll admit it there are better ways to spend my time I’m hooked. 😂

I am. We both look together. She also digs buff women.

Yes, because muscular women are sexy to me, in ways that a non-muscled one simply is NOT! If I was in a relationship with a muscular woman though, Hell no. I would get everything and more, from my real life muscle girl. Unless of course, she was into checking out this site. I did date a buffed girl who always wanted me to show her bodybuilding pictures and videos.

My wife and I both use the site.

My wife and I both use the site.

Well you have the best of both worlds "damagecontrol" because we've seen your muscular wife.

My wife and I both use the site.

How did you do it? How did you convince your wife to start training? Especially at a later age, it’s inspiring to see.

Only because you something have periods were she is not in the mood or too busy

I am happily married for 10+ years but my wife is normal. So I almost come here daily to get my gwm fix.

How did you do it? How did you convince your wife to start training? Especially at a later age, it’s inspiring to see.

We were both in our early/mid 40s when we started and although not fat, we didn't like the shape we were in ("skinny-fat", middle age starting for us). So, we decided to shake things up and hit the gym a couple of times a week. We started at the local YMCA. We both enjoyed working out together and liked the results we started to see and how much better we felt. As time went on, we started going to the gym more often and eventually also started to change our diets to more healthy choices. After several years I told my wife she could probably enter a local competition and place. She didn't believe me, so we went and watched one. Then she believed she could and started training even harder. She won the first show she ever competed in, one year later.

We now train 5-6 days a week and we still really enjoy doing it together. Working out together keeps our motivation going and we really consider it "our" time to talk about things and try to make ourselves better.

We were both in our early/mid 40s when we started and although not fat, we didn't like the shape we were in ("skinny-fat", middle age starting for us). So, we decided to shake things up and hit the gym a couple of times a week. We started at the local YMCA. We both enjoyed working out together and liked the results we started to see and how much better we felt. As time went on, we started going to the gym more often and eventually also started to change our diets to more healthy choices. After several years I told my wife she could probably enter a local competition and place. She didn't believe me, so we went and watched one. Then she believed she could and started training even harder. She won the first show she ever competed in, one year later.

We now train 5-6 days a week and we still really enjoy doing it together. Working out together keeps our motivation going and we really consider it "our" time to talk about things and try to make ourselves better.

and you guys did this all with no personal trainer?

My wife had a coach when she was training for competition (Kira Neuman) and we learned a lot from her. All the basic stuff though we learned from watching online and talking to other competitors at the gyms.

Outstanding and I know I’ve said this before but you two truly are inspiring me to go harder in the gym, now if only I could find a beautiful woman to get ripped with..I tried before but I could tell her heart wasn’t in it and I’m not one to force things on people so she had to go. 🥺🤧

My wife had a coach when she was training for competition (Kira Neuman) and we learned a lot from her. All the basic stuff though we learned from watching online and talking to other competitors at the gyms.

Awesome!

My wife and I both use this site…. We both get turned on by muscular women

Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you forgo your individuality. Visiting this site is not an act of infidelity.

I'm married and it's not cheating. She's not interested in these women but doesn't mind it that I am.

There is an old saying: "you can look at the menu but you can't order!"

Yep, always ahah

Been married 31 years, and I've been using this site for quite some time. She knows about it. She looks at it like this: " I have a dog who chases cars, but if he caught one he couldn't drive the damn thing"

Relationship for 20 years now and I am here quite often the last years. I dont think its cheating, my personal defined border to cheating would be to pay for anything (like I did as single, some Andrulla Blanchette videos a.s.o. ^^).

I am in a relationship, and it probably is something of a bad habit (or at least, not a great use of time) to continue using this site, now that my physical needs are not just being met, but exceeded.

I think the idea of progression that competitors embody makes one susceptible to a kind of FOMO over quitting, as though one is missing out on new developments in the history of female muscle development. How much more muscle can Michaela Aycock or Anastasia Leonova pack onto a 5 foot frame? Will Korableva or Kuznetsova manage crack the Toney Barrier? etc.

For those who voted 'Yes but not to look at pics of other women', what do you use the site for? Just curious.

Relationship for 20 years now and I am here quite often the last years. I dont think its cheating, my personal defined border to cheating would be to pay for anything (like I did as single, some Andrulla Blanchette videos a.s.o. ^^).

Is it cheating if u jerc off 2 pix on here?!?

Been married 31 years, and I've been using this site for quite some time. She knows about it. She looks at it like this: " I have a dog who chases cars, but if he caught one he couldn't drive the damn thing"

Lol. Good thing that your wife has a good sense of humour about this.