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Let's say you could spend one night with any woman on here of your choice, and your spouse is guaranteed to never find out. No strings attached. Do you take the offer?
I am personally in a very happy relationship with a woman I am intellectually and emotionally fulfilled with, but the physical front lacks a little. She's not exactly muscular or athletic. I have been pondering this question for a while and I feel like a terrible boyfriend for it because some part of me wants to take the offer, but another part thinks that the love between my girlfriend and I is much more valuable.
I would like to hear your thoughts on this hypothetical. Single guys, feel free to chime in as well!
Every relationship is different. The rules of your relationship are between you and your partner(s). The rules may change over time, or they may not.
As presented, I have no interest in the hypothetical offer. If Megan THEE Stallion wanted me alone for a few hours, my wife would be down, mostly because she thinks Megan would kick my ass.
Let's say you could spend one night with any woman on here of your choice, and your spouse is guaranteed to never find out. No strings attached. Do you take the offer?
I am personally in a very happy relationship with a woman I am intellectually and emotionally fulfilled with, but the physical front lacks a little. She's not exactly muscular or athletic. I have been pondering this question for a while and I feel like a terrible boyfriend for it because some part of me wants to take the offer, but another part thinks that the love between my girlfriend and I is much more valuable.
I would like to hear your thoughts on this hypothetical. Single guys, feel free to chime in as well!
If you have to think this way, you will cheat. And it isn't fair towards her. Best to end it now and find someone that is also physically fulfilling.
Let's say you could spend one night with any woman on here of your choice, and your spouse is guaranteed to never find out. No strings attached. Do you take the offer?
I am personally in a very happy relationship with a woman I am intellectually and emotionally fulfilled with, but the physical front lacks a little. She's not exactly muscular or athletic. I have been pondering this question for a while and I feel like a terrible boyfriend for it because some part of me wants to take the offer, but another part thinks that the love between my girlfriend and I is much more valuable.
I would like to hear your thoughts on this hypothetical. Single guys, feel free to chime in as well!
Muscles no muscles I’d rather stay loyal to her lmao
Dude ……You need to have a session
Question is sex a big no no during sessions? I’ve thought about it before but i don’t know if I could handle it, there’s a reason why I don’t go to strip clubs. 😅
If you have to think this way, you will cheat. And it isn't fair towards her. Best to end it now and find someone that is also physically fulfilling.
Completely agree, then again op could just proposition her to work out with him but something tells me he isn’t into lifting himself. 🤣
Let's say you could spend one night with any woman on here of your choice, and your spouse is guaranteed to never find out. No strings attached. Do you take the offer?
I am personally in a very happy relationship with a woman I am intellectually and emotionally fulfilled with, but the physical front lacks a little. She's not exactly muscular or athletic. I have been pondering this question for a while and I feel like a terrible boyfriend for it because some part of me wants to take the offer, but another part thinks that the love between my girlfriend and I is much more valuable.
I would like to hear your thoughts on this hypothetical. Single guys, feel free to chime in as well!
My personal experience was the complete opposite, I used to date a very muscular girl that I got to know in a dating app. The physical attraction was there, but the emotional connection wasn’t. Short term is something you can keep, but long term the physical attraction vanishes when you’re not connected in any other way to that person.
That said, if you’ve got someone you feel connected to and who you enjoy spending time with, take care of it! Muscles come and go and who knows if she ever decides to get in shape someday!
My 5 cents here, hopefully this helps a little!
Question is sex a big no no during sessions? I’ve thought about it before but i don’t know if I could handle it, there’s a reason why I don’t go to strip clubs. 😅
Just ask for it when you email for a session. Just don't be weird with it. Ask them if they offer full service and worship (or whatever you're into)
To the OP.....Let's suppose you go for it. What happens if the experience is magnificent? Now you've got to go home and sleep with your girlfriend. What's that gonna feel like to you?
The real danger in doing this isn't if she finds out. The real danger is that you might not ever enjoy having sex with your girlfriend again.
If your attraction to fit women is strong then you need to be with a fit woman. It's an unfortunate truth in life that often we connect with a girl who doesn't offer the physical attraction necessary for a stellar sex life. I made that mistake once. I hope I never do again.
I was married for eight years - I would not have done it. She would never know - but I would know and God would know.
Well put. Yeah, feel sinful and guilty enough just looking, let alone anything else! Job made a covanent with his eyes, not to look lustfully at a maiden. Alas, I was bitten by the lust-bug early in life, especially where GVM are concerned, and I have the eyes of David, and we all know what happened when he spotted Bathsheba!
The question of fidelity in the modern relationship between two smart people is a gray area. I am married a long time to my wife who is both beautiful and muscular. Neither of us has ever cheated in our relationship. But maybe we did flirt with some people at times and that was never a problem. We have half joked about being in a committed relationship and having sex with just one person for the rest of our lives and how unnatural that sounds. We do have a great sex life but after a few thousand intimate encounters with the same person, fantasizing about someone else seems normal. So, when I travel for business, I don’t actively look for opportunities (I’m also very busy) but if I happened to meet one of the women in my favorites and we hit it off, I would go for it and not feel guilty. I think it could even strengthen my marriage.
I’d like to add that staying faithful to a GF sounds very immature to me as I’ve gotten older. Unless this GF is the absolute love of your life and marriage plans are immanent, you need to gain as much experiences in life as possible. If you need to be fulfilled by a muscular woman then you need to complete that journey. Relationships are work so you need to at least maximize your mutual values and compatibilities from the start.
Let's say you could spend one night with any woman on here of your choice, and your spouse is guaranteed to never find out. No strings attached. Do you take the offer?
I am personally in a very happy relationship with a woman I am intellectually and emotionally fulfilled with, but the physical front lacks a little. She's not exactly muscular or athletic. I have been pondering this question for a while and I feel like a terrible boyfriend for it because some part of me wants to take the offer, but another part thinks that the love between my girlfriend and I is much more valuable.
I would like to hear your thoughts on this hypothetical. Single guys, feel free to chime in as well!