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Ideal Scenario?

Which situation would be most ideal? (286 total votes)

Meeting a "normal" woman and watching her become a GWM (200, 69.9%)
Meeting and getting with an "established" GWM (86, 30.1%)
Jul 23, 2024 - permalink

Not sure if there's already a thread about this but what would your ideal relationship scenario be like? Want to meet a big woman right from the start? Or watch your seemingly average girlfriend become something of your dreams?

For me, speaking from a purely idealistic view, would like to meet a woman who's not exactly a GWM but has goals to be one. Then I could support her and help her achieve it. Essentially growing together, both literally and metaphorically.

Jul 23, 2024 - edited Jul 23, 2024 - permalink

Not sure if there's already a thread about this but what would your ideal relationship scenario be like? Want to meet a big woman right from the start? Or watch your seemingly average girlfriend become something of your dreams?

For me, speaking from a purely idealistic view, would like to meet a woman who's not exactly a GWM but has goals to be one. Then I could support her and help her achieve it. Essentially growing together, both literally and metaphorically.

When a woman realizes that building muscle will excite you and then she goes on try and build some muscle for you..that is so hot. I had two women go that route, although nowhere near to the level you are describing. A woman wanting to build muscle for me...WOW!

The one I best remember, started lifting when she found out I love female muscle. She never got huge but she did develop nice arms. Knowing how much I loved her arms, she would call me from the gym, about 5 minutes away. Hey, I just worked my arms... I'll be right home! Then she would rush home, so that I could enjoy her pump.

cgsweat
Jul 23, 2024 - permalink

For me personally, the best kind of relationships are founded on an emotional connection, and then built up from there. Yeah, to some it sounds lame, but I'd rather start off where she's not muscular and then be able to witness her progress over time. It would also give me more of an appreciation of her body and the work she's put into it.

Jul 23, 2024 - permalink

both is good i guess the meeting a normal woman that becomes muscular is more realistic since most fbbs have high standards and are too focussed on their work but you got to be ultra lucky for both .if she becomes muscular for the sake of fetish it would definitely be ultra awesome but that is asking too much of most women .

Jul 24, 2024 - permalink

Most likely if you meet a girl IRL and both of you don’t lift weights, she will not miraculously pick up this habit. Compatibility is about two people sharing common values. If you lift weights in the gym and she admires you for this, she will be more inclined to adopt weight lifting as well. Conversely, we have established this numerous times in the forums regardless of how the question is asked: you are much more likely to meet a girl who lifts if you lift yourself. Again, the prospect of shared values.

Jul 25, 2024 - edited Jul 25, 2024 - permalink

Both are equally ideal to me so I can't vote on this. Then again, a girl who started about a year ago and is serious about putting on a load more size, while maintaining her femininity would be my ideal.

Jul 25, 2024 - permalink

I'd choose the latter if that were a thing. Like, I have for the past couple of years gotten into kettlebells. Works better for me as I don't really care for gyms (and it's not like I ever see the kind of girls posted here at gyms anyways). But, a regular female bodybuilder/powerlifter/crossfitter is already likely to be involved with a guy in a similar industry and probably already used to certain routines that wouldn't work for a normal guy. Whereas if you meet a girl, hit it off, she finds you like muscular girls but maybe also sees the benefits of weight training, after you show her she won't turn instantly into a man after lifting of course, seems more reasonable.

Aug 01, 2024 - permalink
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Aug 01, 2024 - permalink

I can't vote, because I've only been with a couple of women that weren't at least as athletic as I am in some way. I've mentioned before that I met my wife because we both race motocross. I have no interest in any other "types," they just can't keep up or don't get it.

cgsweat
Aug 01, 2024 - permalink

I can't vote, because I've only been with a couple of women that weren't at least as athletic as I am in some way. I've mentioned before that I met my wife because we both race motocross. I have no interest in any other "types," they just can't keep up or don't get it.

Aug 24, 2024 - permalink

My ideal scenario: Meeting a girl who has already a athletic structure, because of job, sports (handball, karate or sth.) - and at some point decides to start with fitness, then bodybuilding, then hardcore bodybuilding... :-)

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