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What I'm saying is just because you live a bber lifestyle it doesn't mean you will end up knowing bbers.
Of course, but it increases the likelihood. There will always be black swan events, but it does not invalidate the fact that a swan will most likely have white feathers. So why keep pointing out behaviors that don't have 100% guaranteed outcomes? Few things are certain. But there are definitely behaviors in one's life that can increase odds of particular outcomes.
Of course, but it increases the likelihood. There will always be black swan events, but it does not invalidate the fact that a swan will most likely have white feathers. So why keep pointing out behaviors that don't have 100% guaranteed outcomes? Few things are certain. But there are definitely behaviors in one's life that can increase odds of particular outcomes.
I'm just trying to save you some time.
Instead of joining gym, injecting, dieting, getting bber friends.....just go and attack the girl you like directly. Maybe she doesn't even like bbers.
Personally I like this "lonely" aspect of the gym.
Knowing I can just go, do my routine and admire fbbs without talking to anybody.
In other sports you are forced to socialize more.
That's fine, you are looking to decrease odds of interaction. But I do not think most other people who want to meet someone (whether fbb or not) are interested in decreasing their odds.
> If you're into truly muscular women, ie women who are on steroids, then you're setting yourself up for disappointment if you think you're going to find them at your local gym. The chances of running into a female on steroids is extremely low. You're far better off going to some sort of fitness or bodybuilding expo instead.
Depends......if by chance you go to a bbing gym you will see a few of them. It's a bit of luck. Or you can go on purpose to bbing gyms. Expos are cool but there's not many of them.
> Better yet, it's not the 90's anymore, just slide into their DMs. Of course, do so with a real instagram profile (not one that follows a bunch of fetish shit), and send a real message, nothing creepy or fetish driven.
Girls doing steroids use Instagram to work. they have anywhere from 30.000 to 500.000 followers. Good luck with having a girl with 250.000 followers answer your friendly dm... Even worse...your pathetic profile with 30 followers is on her inbox with your pics so every time you pass by her on the gym you Will feel embarrased.....and since she never answers to that dm eventually you start to fall into a depression comparing yourself to that mighty goddess on drugs.
The BEST way to get close to them I think would be to become their client. But they Will suck you dry lol....and you'll end Up depressed anyway because you can't even eat a chocolate or drink a soda. And you'll crave her approval and attention....but she'll say she has 100 other clients, if you don't like it leave.
She'll have you on lettuce and Chicken for Life working out 3 hours a day. Herself, she'll only go 3 times a week to the gym and eat whatever she wants. She'll make you feel so worthless....until you accept reality and start talking drugs, which she Will sell to you.
In your last day of life you Will ask her why she rejected you sexually....she'll say that she didn't want kids, she just wanted to travel, party and have fun. She loves freedom. Her kids are her cats/dogs.
You'll die miserable and poor while she travels with the money you paid her.
You okay, man?
That's fine, you are looking to decrease odds of interaction. But I do not think most other people who want to meet someone (whether fbb or not) are interested in decreasing their odds.
If you want to socialize the gym is probably not where you want to go.
Sure, in YouTube videos everybody's talking and with a constant smile.
In the everyday, people mostly just stay to themselves, even ifbb pros.
If you want to socialize the gym is probably not where you want to go.
Sure, in YouTube videos everybody's talking and with a constant smile.
In the everyday, people mostly just stay to themselves, even ifbb pros.
If it’s a big box gym, then yes, not a great place to try and meet people because the business model is built on getting gym goers in and out.
With regards to my initial suggestion, I always add that if you want to interact with other fit people, your best bet is to join a smaller and more community-oriented gym like a CrossFit gym or a more boutique lifting gym. Met a lot of great people that I now call friends through CrossFit gyms I have been a member of. And of course, you have to make an effort to be part of the community.
If it’s a big box gym, then yes, not a great place to try and meet people because the business model is built on getting gym goers in and out.
With regards to my initial suggestion, I always add that if you want to interact with other fit people, your best bet is to join a smaller and more community-oriented gym like a CrossFit gym or a more boutique lifting gym. Met a lot of great people that I now call friends through CrossFit gyms I have been a member of. And of course, you have to make an effort to be part of the community.
Sure, but you won't find a roided fbb in the CrossFit gym (there's always exceptions).
As a generalization I'd say bbers are probably not the most sociable kind of people.
That's why the chose an extremely individual activity like bbing.
Sure, but you won't find a roided fbb in the CrossFit gym (there's always exceptions).
As a generalization I'd say bbers are probably not the most sociable kind of people.
That's why the chose an extremely individual activity like bbing.
Depends on the context. Are they working out in the gym? If they are, then obviously they are more interested in finishing their workout. Are they out and about in public? They are likely more open to talking to people like any typical person.
What I don’t understand is your need for confirmation approval. If you feel that’s your experience, fine. However, it’s disingenuous to lump a group of people with varying backgrounds into a category without anything to support your claim. Bodybuilders are just people who work out. Their personalities will vary.
I ended up signing up for the gym and saw a lot of young girls there and girls my age who were stronger than me. But most of all I like that my wife, half a year ago, signed up for the gym after learning that I like pumped up, athletic girls, she has lost weight and she does many leg exercises with heavy weights. I can't do that yet. My legs are still weaker than my wife's. Yes, and biceps appeared. I touch her legs, and they are hard even when she doesn’t strain them. And when they strain they become harder than stone)))
If I didn't do the exercise correctly, I injured my shoulder and can't do upper body exercises yet. That's why I do leg exercises. But my girlfriend’s legs are stronger than mine and my top is stronger. she says that while my shoulder is healing, she is going to catch up with my biceps and wants to surpass me in size. She is diligent and I believe that she can do it. But it will not be soon. At the moment my bicep is 37 cm;at the last measurement, my girlfriend’s biceps was 31 cm
Why? Girls can also go and talk to guys.