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finally (kind of) talked to a girl at the gym i've seen for a while but haven't seen for a couple of months because of my schedule. very fit, very nice, actually gave me a complliment too which froze me for a sec lmao. but now we know each other and i'll be back on my regular bullshit to see her more often. she's cute af
Way to go, dude!
finally (kind of) talked to a girl at the gym i've seen for a while but haven't seen for a couple of months because of my schedule. very fit, very nice, actually gave me a complliment too which froze me for a sec lmao. but now we know each other and i'll be back on my regular bullshit to see her more often. she's cute af
Good luck!
finally (kind of) talked to a girl at the gym i've seen for a while but haven't seen for a couple of months because of my schedule. very fit, very nice, actually gave me a complliment too which froze me for a sec lmao. but now we know each other and i'll be back on my regular bullshit to see her more often. she's cute af
Dude she is into you, you need to ask her out!
I use to cheer in college and a lot of my female teammates were jacked. Clean cut 6 packs and some biceps.
Met Guusje van Geel and Savannah Prez at a event i was attenting for work almost a year ago now, online they already look impressive but when you see it in real life its definitely even more impressive esspecially if your into girls that are fit
Chill, brotha! She could be friendly that’s all.
nvm shes gay lmao
Ah well. Always nice to be complimented for your hard work!
true!
I think Guusje is so gorgeous
100%, you can still see the muscle in normal clothes but she looks pretty classy too, it doesnt look overpowering in normal clothes
Out of EXTREME curiosity, how did you find that out?
unique name, turns out we have a mutual that run in the same rather small circle and specific circle around here.
usually easy to guess with gym clothes, but i hadn't seen her in over 2-3 months so all i remembered was her face.
i just don't like to work out its not fun i get very exhausted and feel bad after a short time. when i used to go to gyms it was all men and non muscular women trying to lose weight. and most people are to focussed on working out i think this may be a cultural problem because i noticed people in other countries tend to have more random small talk. but people here only talk to you when they have to say something important its just a very antisocial environment like most places.
im undeleting the comment because it gives a little insight
people are indeed most likely at the gym to work and not make small talk. it is a happy coincidence when it happens. you are more likely to meet other men than women just through things like asking for spots because more likely than not you're not going to ask your average woman at the gym to spot you on heavy work.
you are there to work, and yes, you should be kind of tired when you're done. If your one obstacle is that "you're exhausted" and it doesn't have to do wtih an underlying health condition then that's on you. but its' not a cultural issue, unless you go to a social club masquerading as a gym.
Although she isn't an FBB she might as well be. There is a 21 year old at the YMCA who must be 5'10-6'. She was doing goblet squats with 105lbs dumbell, 70lbs in each hand for Bulgarian split squats, 110lbs for jump squats and then she went to the squat rack next to me and asked if I was going to use the extra 45lbs plates. I told her she can have them and I saw her load up 315 for her first set. She then loaded up 405. She did not use a belt and her legs were hige and ripped. I asked her how she got so strong and it turns out she was a college cheer leader who tore her MCL and just kept trying to strengthen her knee more and more. I didn't have the courage to ask for her leg size bit you could see deep cuts and veins and I'm guessing 28" thighs. Fricken world class legs.
im undeleting the comment because it gives a little insight
people are indeed most likely at the gym to work and not make small talk. it is a happy coincidence when it happens. you are more likely to meet other men than women just through things like asking for spots because more likely than not you're not going to ask your average woman at the gym to spot you on heavy work.
you are there to work, and yes, you should be kind of tired when you're done. If your one obstacle is that "you're exhausted" and it doesn't have to do wtih an underlying health condition then that's on you. but its' not a cultural issue, unless you go to a social club masquerading as a gym.
i think its cultural because all my girlfriends were from other countries but that was probably just a coincidence. but its generally really hard for me and most of my friends to get a girlfriend because of a lack of places for people of both genders to meet up organically its not just the gym. even making new male friends is very rare i know them all since high school it seems to be pure luck.
Yesterday at a a DC United game in Washington DC, I saw a very fit chick with well defined arms and back and beautiful face. My guess would be she was in her late 30s or early 40s. I told her she looked amazing and she thanked me. She was with her husband and I gave them both a fist bump as I was leaving.
Here in NYC, I see about 2-3 GWMs IRL every week. For example, last week, there was one who crossed in front of me in the grand concourse of Grand Central Terminal and another one was reading a book on the subway. Also, there are a handful in my gym that I see randomly depending on when I’m there. However, since I probably see thousands of women every week IRL, this translates into a very small percentage of women overall. All those buff influencers on IG aren’t influencing enough!
Yesterday at a a DC United game in Washington DC, I saw a very fit chick with well defined arms and back and beautiful face. My guess would be she was in her late 30s or early 40s. I told her she looked amazing and she thanked me. She was with her husband and I gave them both a fist bump as I was leaving.
And hidden within that is a true key. Make the effort to acknowledge the guy as much as his partner in encounters when they're both there.
And hidden within that is a true key. Make the effort to acknowledge the guy as much as his partner in encounters when they're both there.
Yep, I agree.
Spent the day in Cambridge (UK), followed a bodybuilding couple for a few minutes across the centre, she has great delts and a lovely thick back, good calves... Didn't get to see her from the front as they turned right into a jewelry shop while I turned left... Then... I was just leaving the self service area of Tesco in Huntington when a very attractive girl with serious delts and big arms went to a check out behind me... My neck snapped round so fast, I couldn't help it... And she was on her own... Shame I was with my kid so I couldn't really talk to or complement her (yes I am single)... Regretted it all evening though, she was gorgeous 😍
finally (kind of) talked to a girl at the gym i've seen for a while but haven't seen for a couple of months because of my schedule. very fit, very nice, actually gave me a complliment too which froze me for a sec lmao. but now we know each other and i'll be back on my regular bullshit to see her more often. she's cute af