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I want to share a story of a woman, who I didn't know existed on the site until I came her. I dated her a few times beforehand. I don't want to name names, but we went on a few dates, was so into her physically and surprisingly she reciprocated. Until she stole tampons from a store we were in on the 3rd date. Moral of the story no matter how good they look, the person matters most
I'm an old fart and have always found muscular females sexy as hell. Even at my age, my libido is insane and I owe that to muscular women. I can actually understand how someone can get so enamored, that it stays with them for a long time.
I’m older myself. I don’t remember when my attraction to muscular women started but I know I can be aroused just by the sight of one. I’m definitely attracted to certain types ( Tina Lockwood, Denise Hoshor, Nikki Fuller) old school muscle gals.
Completely understand. I'll share one of my encounters.
I was walking my dog at my local park and I noticed a woman coming out of her parked car. My eyes went wide as my brain processed that she was muscular. My adrenaline kicked in on what I should do next. I figured I could go around and meet her on the opposite end in her walk. I thought really quickly what I would say and I kept my expectations low. As we start nearing each other, I get to absorb just how wide and muscular this woman is. She was wearing sports bra that stretched out due to the wideness of her naturally muscular chest. Her leggings left no room for imagination because her quads and calves were, practically, stretching them as well.
As my dog and I get closer, I wait until her face is inline with mine. She smiles politely to me. I smile in return, wave at her and say, "Excuse me." She pauses her walk, takes out her earbud, and looks at me confused. I tell her, "Look. I'm sure you get this a lot, but I have to say. You have an amazing shape." I used "amazing shape" because I think saying they have an amazing body or that they look muscular seems a little strong as a genuine compliment.
She laughs nervously and thanks me. At that moment, my dog jumps on her leg excitedly. She kneels down and starts petting her as I tell my dog to get down. She didn't have a problem with my dog and rather enjoyed the attention. I ask her if she is a bodybuilder. She shakes her head and says "powerlifter." Believe me, when I say that it made so much sense. She wasn't bigger than me height wise since she was around 5'3, but she was, definitely, wider that me no doubt. We talk a little about what got her into powerlifting. Somewhere in between we exchange names and I go in to shake her hand. Her grip was delicate and soft which surprised me, but that lasted for less than a second because she gave me a jolt of her strength as we shook. Damn, my hand became numb for a few seconds and I did my best not mention her strong ass handshake.
Afterwards, I politely said, "Well I won't bother you anymore and I just wanted to tell you how amazing you look. Have a wonderful day." She thanked me and bowed. I'm telling you it was the cutest bow I've ever seen because it came from such a muscular women. I left the park shortly after not looking back because whether I saw her or not didn't matter. I just wanted to genuinely give her a compliment and if I ever saw her again, I could just go up to her since we left on amicable terms. The point of this story is if you want to give her a compliment go for it, but it doesn't mean you have to get her contact info there and then because you never know if you will meet again. You don't want to leave knowing you were that "creepy guy" to her.
thats how you do it without beeing the "creepy guy from the park" - good job
Thanks for your support @Reinheart9 and @luvembuff
I would also like to mention that acting perfectly in the heat of the moment is not very common for most people.
In the first place I wasn't even sure if I should speak to her at all, but then I figured that I would never see her again or regret that I didn't do anything.
The first thing I said to her was that I didn't want to waste her time, so I acted quickly. I wanted to make sure that I didn't bother her as much as I could. Yeah I know, it wasn't perfect at all, but from the distance many things look easier than they actually are.
And one more thing:
At that moment I was in a real hurry, because I had to attain a meeting. There was little to no time for the conversation with her. I actually had to run to the appointment after I said goodbye.
there's a almost-fresh out of college young woman at work that has been moonlighting as a fitness instructor. I wouldn't say that she's buff, she would likely have a pic reported here for not enough visible muscularity, but she definitely has a very curvy shape from training. she wears a lot of sleeveless tops at the moment and definitely has pretty nice arms that pop when she's carrying stuff. probably the most suble thing i've seen in a while that's impressive. we talk about lifting often enough though i know she has a bf (and also it's a work friendship) so I respect the boundaries.
I agree, I did not get creepy vibes from that. Well done.
It's like the situations i explaines how I got friends and coworkers to flex - play it cool and funny, hide your excitement and u can compliment them, they will apreciate. If u like biceps its not like commenting on boobs or butts where staring or touching is totally inappropriate. Women who wear sleeveless clothes in summer are great when you love female arms.
It's like the situations i explaines how I got friends and coworkers to flex - play it cool and funny, hide your excitement and u can compliment them, they will apreciate. If u like biceps its not like commenting on boobs or butts where staring or touching is totally inappropriate. Women who wear sleeveless clothes in summer are great when you love female arms.
That's where it does, actually get complicated! For us, feeling a woman's flexed biceps, is like a guy into boobs, feeling some boobs. Maybe I'm extreme but my expression alone, would be more than, "hey that's pretty cool".
I was working out in a gym, several years ago and this woman came up to her husband, beside me and asked him if he would show her how to work her arms. This guy looked like he was in a gym, the for first time in his life. His wife however had muscular arms, with great looking biceps.
I was thinking WTF!! I interrupted their conversation and told her, you should showing HIM, how to work HIS arms. She got the biggest smile on her face. He obviously didn't appreciate my remark. I don't know if she was just teasing him or what. She started half flexing, feeling her own biceps a little, still smiling at me.
That little interaction with her, got me so aroused that if she had flexed and asked me to feel her biceps, I might have been forced to refuse to do it. I later found, from a friend who knew her, she was a math teacher and dance instructor. Obviously she knew how to train her arms.
I was working out in a gym, several years ago and this woman came up to her husband, beside me and asked him if he would show her how to work her arms. This guy looked like he was in a gym, the for first time in his life. His wife however had muscular arms, with great looking biceps.
I was thinking WTF!! I interrupted their conversation and told her, you should showing HIM, how to work HIS arms. She got the biggest smile on her face. He obviously didn't appreciate my remark. I don't know if she was just teasing him or what. She started half flexing, feeling her own biceps a little, still smiling at me.
That little interaction with her, got me so aroused that if she had flexed and asked me to feel her biceps, I might have been forced to refuse to do it. I later found, from a friend who knew her, she was a math teacher and dance instructor. Obviously she knew how to train her arms.
Man, you did the husband dirty lol! Well, at least, he is living the dream.
Really fucking humbling moment at the gym today for me. I was by the free weights doing some shoulder presses (seated), working with 15lbs. This lady comes next to me and she’s seriously jacked. Huge shoulders, for arms, and muscular chest. She gets the 35lbs and started pressing them like NOTHING. After she leaves I grab the weights..just to give it a try and I almost break my arm lol. No joke.
Really fucking humbling moment at the gym today for me. I was by the free weights doing some shoulder presses (seated), working with 15lbs. This lady comes next to me and she’s seriously jacked. Huge shoulders, for arms, and muscular chest. She gets the 35lbs and started pressing them like NOTHING. After she leaves I grab the weights..just to give it a try and I almost break my arm lol. No joke.
Was she training chest and shoulders for the day and it was a coincidence you and her were doing the same exercise or was she low-key showing out?
Really fucking humbling moment at the gym today for me. I was by the free weights doing some shoulder presses (seated), working with 15lbs. This lady comes next to me and she’s seriously jacked. Huge shoulders, for arms, and muscular chest. She gets the 35lbs and started pressing them like NOTHING. After she leaves I grab the weights..just to give it a try and I almost break my arm lol. No joke.
Conflicting feelings, for sure
Was she training chest and shoulders for the day and it was a coincidence you and her were doing the same exercise or was she low-key showing out?
Conflicting feelings, for sure
Nah, I think it was a coincidence. And yeah, makes me realize there are some ladies out there who could absolutely kick the shit out of me 😂
Was she training chest and shoulders for the day and it was a coincidence you and her were doing the same exercise or was she low-key showing out?
Conflicting feelings, for sure
Also another thing, before this I first noticed her at another machine, when I finish my workout I go to another machine she just finished up on.it’s one of those machines for back/traps where you pull out. I go and see she had the weight set to like 50LB and I can barley fucking budge it. I have to set it back down to 25 lol. Whoever you are lady, you’re a beast!
Really fucking humbling moment at the gym today for me. I was by the free weights doing some shoulder presses (seated), working with 15lbs. This lady comes next to me and she’s seriously jacked. Huge shoulders, for arms, and muscular chest. She gets the 35lbs and started pressing them like NOTHING. After she leaves I grab the weights..just to give it a try and I almost break my arm lol. No joke.
Alright this has to be fantasy. Or she was warming up and you’re literally 87 lbs. My wife who is somewhat muscular and athletic, definitely not “seriously jacked” can fairly easily shoulder press 35s. She probably presses 45s for reps so a “seriously jacked” woman would be pressing significant more unless she’s just warming up. I’ll never put anyone down in the gym but like I said, unless you’re 87 lbs and 4 feet tall, 15 lbs shouldn’t be a problem for you at all even if you are just starting out.
Alright this has to be fantasy. Or she was warming up and you’re literally 87 lbs. My wife who is somewhat muscular and athletic, definitely not “seriously jacked” can fairly easily shoulder press 35s. She probably presses 45s for reps so a “seriously jacked” woman would be pressing significant more unless she’s just warming up. I’ll never put anyone down in the gym but like I said, unless you’re 87 lbs and 4 feet tall, 15 lbs shouldn’t be a problem for you at all even if you are just starting out.
You missed saying 87 lbs soaking wet!
here is the site for shoulder press standards ...its for male and female, includes weights of the individuals and levels of strength. Am 87 pound women accroding to this shoulder pressing 35 pound dumbells is in the advanced level of strength (the chart below is for barbell (2 hands). https://strengthlevel.com/strength-standards/...
Great site however to determine real strength levels of people and comparisons.
Completely understand. I'll share one of my encounters.
I was walking my dog at my local park and I noticed a woman coming out of her parked car. My eyes went wide as my brain processed that she was muscular. My adrenaline kicked in on what I should do next. I figured I could go around and meet her on the opposite end in her walk. I thought really quickly what I would say and I kept my expectations low. As we start nearing each other, I get to absorb just how wide and muscular this woman is. She was wearing sports bra that stretched out due to the wideness of her naturally muscular chest. Her leggings left no room for imagination because her quads and calves were, practically, stretching them as well.
As my dog and I get closer, I wait until her face is inline with mine. She smiles politely to me. I smile in return, wave at her and say, "Excuse me." She pauses her walk, takes out her earbud, and looks at me confused. I tell her, "Look. I'm sure you get this a lot, but I have to say. You have an amazing shape." I used "amazing shape" because I think saying they have an amazing body or that they look muscular seems a little strong as a genuine compliment.
She laughs nervously and thanks me. At that moment, my dog jumps on her leg excitedly. She kneels down and starts petting her as I tell my dog to get down. She didn't have a problem with my dog and rather enjoyed the attention. I ask her if she is a bodybuilder. She shakes her head and says "powerlifter." Believe me, when I say that it made so much sense. She wasn't bigger than me height wise since she was around 5'3, but she was, definitely, wider that me no doubt. We talk a little about what got her into powerlifting. Somewhere in between we exchange names and I go in to shake her hand. Her grip was delicate and soft which surprised me, but that lasted for less than a second because she gave me a jolt of her strength as we shook. Damn, my hand became numb for a few seconds and I did my best not mention her strong ass handshake.
Afterwards, I politely said, "Well I won't bother you anymore and I just wanted to tell you how amazing you look. Have a wonderful day." She thanked me and bowed. I'm telling you it was the cutest bow I've ever seen because it came from such a muscular women. I left the park shortly after not looking back because whether I saw her or not didn't matter. I just wanted to genuinely give her a compliment and if I ever saw her again, I could just go up to her since we left on amicable terms. The point of this story is if you want to give her a compliment go for it, but it doesn't mean you have to get her contact info there and then because you never know if you will meet again. You don't want to leave knowing you were that "creepy guy" to her.