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I agree with the above vibes ... Beeing a lover of physical muscle doesn't reduce my view - and only talking for me lol - to just seeing physics. I adore what some do with themselves but I wouldn't generally say: Oh damn I want to be with her. Because I don't know her! BUT in general we do know, that we like and love a personality that's soooo determined and confident about themselves that they do what they do and reach their goals. Yet there would be many aspects to know first, so I don't really reduce them to physics and to those few aspects we know.
I would surely love to get in contact with more muscular women and I surely have my preferencies character wise so ... it would not automatically fit just because of beeing muscular. I doubt many would confess to that because aside from some posting smashing-phantasies, most people aren't THAT versatile towards a partnership that they wouldn't care about other characteristics.
Would those ladies be "unapproachable" or arrogant? Some may be, some may have a reason to be (because not in a situation where they would WANT an approach at all) ... many would not be. I wouldn't see them like that and confidence doesn't automatically make people unapproachable, that's not even linked imho.
Eunhee Kang is overrated and ugly
Headshrinking isn’t a super big deal
Both of these can be true simultaneously
Not sure if this is technically considered unpopular, but I feel like there is a lot of pushback to this.
If you are attracted to muscular women and want to attract them you should also get into some kind of strength sport at a consistent level. Whether you do bodybuilding, powerlifting, strongman, olympic lifting or CrossFit, you should dedicate yourself to not only training with weights but possibly even compete yourself. Like attracts like, and there is a reason you see female bodybuilders get into relationships with other bodybuilders, or powerlifters with other powerlifters and vice versa. It's going to be a lot harder to attract a woman who lives a fit lifestyle if you don't live one yourself (easy to get resentful if you put a lot of effort in the gym and your partner is a couch potato who eats like shit.)
I go to expos and competitions quite a bit, and it's not uncommon to see dudes who clearly look out of place trying to awkwardly hit on fit and muscular women there. And it usually doesn't end successfully because: for one, those women are fully aware that there is a section of dudes out there who fetishize them, and when they see someone who is clearly not fit at a fitness expo and they're not there cheering on friends and family, it's that much more obvious. And for two, if you're not into lifting yourself, what are you going to talk to them about? You won't be able to relate to training regimes, or nutrition, or recovery, so all that you have left to ask them are the "fetishistic" questions they hear over and over again.
So stop the excuses and go lift!
What are some confessions and/or unpopular opinions you have regarding muscular women?