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How private or public are you about your admiration of muscular women?

(233 total votes)

Only my sexual partner knows. (130, 55.8%)
A few friends and/or family know. (75, 32.2%)
Lots of people know - I don't care if the whole world knows. (28, 12.0%)
Nov 05, 2022 - edited Nov 05, 2022 - permalink

Are you private, or public when it comes to revealing your good taste in the female form? Personally, I've kept it pretty much to myself and most of my lovers.

Nov 05, 2022 - permalink

I've been way outta that closet since 7th grade.

Nov 05, 2022 - permalink

None of the options apply to me, because I haven't told anybody about it. Not even my sexual partner because I don't have one.

Nov 05, 2022 - permalink

I am quite private i only said it to my sexual partners. and i acedentally told my mom and i told my friend once "i don't watch porn i watch sport". or that time i acedentally told my other frend that i thought the women at the olympics where hot.

(Sorry for the typos no time)

Nov 05, 2022 - permalink

I've been way outta that closet since 7th grade.

Man I wish I was open way earlier. Ever since I opened up it just made me realize that I have great friends that would never ridicule me for something so ridiculously normal. It's actually improved my relationship with my close friends because it was basically the only secret I kept. And now my friends will randomly send me pictures of muscular women whenever they stumble upon them.

Nov 05, 2022 - edited Nov 05, 2022 - permalink

A few friends probably have some idea. Wife knows and works out with me. But really, I don't get the whole idea of being "out"? Do guys really just sit around and talk about who they'd like to fuck? Because I don't, and my friends don't. And I really don't care or want to know.

I'm not against this thread. As anonymous internet chatter it's fun. But I don't sit down face-to-face with plutonic friends and talk sex... Nor do I feel the least bit like I'm missing out on anything because of that.

Nov 05, 2022 - permalink

Man I wish I was open way earlier. Ever since I opened up it just made me realize that I have great friends that would never ridicule me for something so ridiculously normal. It's actually improved my relationship with my close friends because it was basically the only secret I kept. And now my friends will randomly send me pictures of muscular women whenever they stumble upon them.

The coolest thing - apart from having a loving wife who fully indulges all (ok, most of) my bullshit - is having so many girls around me who are all eager to show off their muscles/strength, from the neighbor lady to my assistant. The fact that I have been able to carve out a living within the sphere of what I love is better than icing on any cake.

Nov 06, 2022 - permalink

Very open about my preference for GWM.

My partner is a GWM (crossfitter), my friends point out buff babes to me when one muscle goddess waddles past.

It wasn't always the case, and I hate that I actively booed them in the past when it was still kept quiet.

Love training with a GWM as well.

Nov 06, 2022 - permalink

I don't hide it but I don't volunteer the information either. If it never comes up I'm perfectly fine with that. But if it did I'd give my honest opinion.

Nov 06, 2022 - permalink

Friends or family, I'll be vague about how I might like a sporty gal.

A girlfriend, I'll tell her. Not sure why anyone would hide it from a partner when you can roll the dice and they might lift with you next time

Nov 07, 2022 - permalink

I don't hide it but I don't volunteer the information either. If it never comes up I'm perfectly fine with that. But if it did I'd give my honest opinion.

Exactly.

M76
Nov 07, 2022 - permalink

If someone asks I don't hide it, but I don't make a point about shouting my sexual ideal into the ether.

I never explicitly told my family, but I think they secretly know, since they caught me a few times in my teens watching FBB shows and trying to hide muscle pics on the family computer (before I had my own PC)

I told a few of my closer friends, and none of them even bat an eye over it.

Nov 07, 2022 - permalink

I don't hide it but I don't volunteer the information either. If it never comes up I'm perfectly fine with that. But if it did I'd give my honest opinion.

This. Exactly

Nov 07, 2022 - permalink

I never told anyone because it’s not a typical topic of conversation. To be honest, looking at the various categories on PH (which barely scratch the surface) I think it’s not all that weird. Each their own.

Nov 07, 2022 - permalink

My gf knows she has to lift because i love big muscular asses and she does it since almost 2 years now. She also got upper body gains

Nov 07, 2022 - permalink

The first person I told originally was my sister, when I was in junior high school. After our conversations, she tried to help me find girls with muscle in high school and actually got two dates for me.😁 Both girls had awesome arms...not pretty but all I cared about was muscle and they both had biceps. It wasn't until my mid 20s that I began to slowly come out.

Nov 07, 2022 - permalink

Well, the only folks that know is my GF and my friends, and only because they asked. Other than that, I keep it to myself.

Nov 08, 2022 - edited Nov 08, 2022 - permalink

I'm like a few others here in the sense that I, personally don't walk around advertising it, because that's needless. Where I'm slightly different is: if It comes up, ("What female body type do you prefer?..." etc) I'm faaar from shy! So yes, I'm very proud but no, I don't beat my chest about it to our grand planet that's known as Earth.

Even with that said, considering that my fiancé is easily and visibly more fit than the average woman--or man, yet still without quite being a bodybuilder, I'm sure when we're out-and-about together, during the Summer months (I live in the Northeastern United States) random strangers can tell and that's if they care or are thinking about such a thing when looking at me.... I don't check for stares because I don't care. And Hell, our tattoos and piercings get more attention (even in this day and age 😩) than our muscles where I reside. ...I live in a weird place...

Also--I may have mentioned this on another thread; wether in images or the forum escapes me currently--I have only been in serious domestic/romantic relationships with athletic/muscular women my entire adult life, so it's not like those who know me personally or publicly have to guess, lol. It's really just a part--be it a proud part--of who I am and not something that separates me, for better or for worse, from those around me.

TL;DR: I wouldn't mind if the world knew, because I'm proud to show it, but it should be axiomatic. And I never express the subject to those around me in any manner as to gain attention, because in the end I never let such a thing matter too much in my life.

Nov 08, 2022 - permalink

I don’t really broadcast it but there’s definitely a small amount of friends and colleagues who probably can tell I like a bit of muscle. So far, if anyone does say to me, “you like a muscle woman don’t you?”, I don’t deny it, but I suppose I downplay it a smudge.

“Oh yeah muscle can look great on a woman, but I don’t ONLY like muscle women, I like all sorts”.

Which is also true

Nov 08, 2022 - permalink

My friends know. That's about it since I don't have a partner at the moment.

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Nov 08, 2022 - permalink

my history is all over.

I'm fortunate now that my activity online isn't as public as it used to be in the earlier IG and FB days. I can usually comment on stuff without anyone seeing my comments. However, my close friends and my inner circle are aware that I like buff girls. I wish they were as nice about maybe trying to FIND one for me to meet (including one of my closest friends who i met at the gym), but that's a different story. My immediately family is aware but they are a bit culturally conservative in some ways and bodybuilding as a lifestyle does not seem right to them.

When I was in high school and college my online activity was a little more out there and aqcquaintances definitely new too. I had more than a few fbbs added as fb friends back in those days.

Before that it was just my family. And as I mentioned the FBB life does not jive. even some of the lightly muscled women on this site would put them off.

I dont' post about it or talk about it really, and certianly only one person in my life knows i modded her, and only my therapist knows how much i've spent on this specifically over the years.

Nov 08, 2022 - edited Jul 13, 2024 - permalink

Technically nobody knows. I don't really consider this an identity or part of myself.

Nov 08, 2022 - permalink

I don’t think I’ve ever told anyone about it. Probably was a caught a few times when I was younger. But I’ve never outright said it to anyone.

cgsweat
Nov 08, 2022 - permalink

Mostly private simply because I don't have an overwhelming need to announce my sexual attractions to others. If it happens to come up naturally in conversation (which is extremely rare) then I might feel compelled to divulge.

I've told very few people for these reasons.

Nov 08, 2022 - permalink

I think there should be another option for those that have not told even their sexual partners, like me

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