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Amen....gotta just come out and tell her. I didn’t tell my wife until two years after we were married. Terrible mistake as she took to it right away and I kicked myself for thinking I could have great sex and fetishized fulfillment two years sooner. And I should have known given her personality and build already. She loved it when she started getting results and has a bit of an attention seeking personality, so really liked it when other people started noticing her physique as well. In the end, you gotta just be honest with yourself and with her about it. You’ll have a much healthier relationship or you’ll know it wasn’t meant to be. I know that is easier said than done.
My first wife was very muscular and initially I didn't tell that her muscles drove me crazy. She seemed annoyed at my constant attention to her arms but never said anything to me nor I to her. Then she found my hidden collection of muscle girl mags, very early WPW stuff. I should have told her the day I first saw her undressed, just been honest with her. Every relationship since.. I told them right off the bat. These other buffed women in my life were blown away at the effect their muscles had on me. It seemed to empower them that they could have that effect on a man! Love making was incredible because they used their muscles as a tool to enhance everything. Flexing their biceps while on top or even with me on top...what an incredible way explode!
@lpc...I had one girlfriend, who had previously worked loading baggage at SF International. Before we had ever met, we spoke on the phone and she mentioned how people told her she had nice arms. That opened the door to tell her how hot muscular women are. She seemed shocked by my statement. On our second date, I took her to my gym and signed her up. She started reaching for those typical girly girl weights and I told her no way. She was strong from her baggage job and could easily handle more weight. She was hooked and loved how her arms further developed. I lived about 2 minutes from the gym and her favorite thing was to work out her arms, hard and rush home to me, so that I could enjoy her pumped arms!!!!! To have a woman try to please you like that...was so awesome!
When I first met my wife, she was in the process of losing weight from being obese. She lost 100 lbs! I told her I was very attracted to muscle women and that she should start lifting heavy weights. [hint, hint, hint]
Her response was that she was trying to get lean, not muscular. :/
Then later she gained all her weight back. :-(
So now I secretly surf the net for muscle women while my wife sits in her chair and gets fatter.
@cryphius i am sorry to hear, that really sucks ....
my ex wife was a fitness competitor but at some point got out of it and became fluffy ... she knew I was liking muscular women and she ridiculed me for it at times because she felt bad about herself, not being this hot fit woman any longer. after I divorced her I hooked up with several muscular girls from bikini to bodybuilding class ... I work out a lot myself so the gym is a ok place to find like minded singles ... currently I am with a girl who I would say is between physique and bb and she knows my preferences and enjoys it a lot
No I have not and I’ve been obsessed with female bodybuilders for over 38 years. She knows of my fetish though as years ago found my stash of muscle magazines and sometimes even with my online viewing. I have gotten good at hiding it from her but she knows.
She is not in any way muscular and either am I. She does not understand my obsession and thinks it’s pretty perverted thus I hide my attractions and love of gorgeous muscled women to myself. I wish it were different but it is not. Thus I enjoy my visits here.
This is a great question thank you for posting snd asking it!
The sad story is how some of us had a woman into being muscular, who then later got fat or flabby. I'm married to a woman who I was blunt and honest with at the beggining. I told her flat out that I find muscular women not only attractive but something I absolutely needed in any relationship. Her response was to buy some dumbbells and start pumping weights. She used to do curls in her apartment with me on the phone so I could hear her moans and groans as she squeezed out the last reps. Phone sex at it's finest. She developed muscle fairly quickly, especially in her arms. I used to bring massage lotions to her apartment, and rub down her arms after she worked out. I was in complete heaven. We got married a year or so later. She even picked out a nice sleeveless wedding dress for my viewing pleasure. We got married, her workouts stopped, her beautiful arms turned to flab along with the rest of her. I went from wanting to make love to her as often as possible to not really wanting to at all. I was so honest up front, that I thought she understood. She has found my stash and internet activity and screamed at me...NO WONDER you don't want to make love to me...look at these women!!! I told her that she never had to look like a FBB, the level of buffness she had achieved when we got married was enough to drive me crazy!! I guess that wasn't enough for her...she's now flabby and lazy.
Yes. In fact, I've told most of my previews girlfriends about it and none of them ever said anything bad about it. Instead, they worked out with me, not taking it seriously though, just for the moment. Once we broke up, they left the gym or the thought of working out. My current girlfriend is different though. She's taking bodybuilding seriously since she noticed the effect it had on me (admiring her muscles). Now she's thinking about looking like Juliana Malacarne or Natalia Coello. Its honestly great, we've also made several plans for the future like getting married, how many kids we're gonna have and things like that. I couldn't be a happier man and even typing this makes me feel happy about the future and proud of the woman I'm going to spend the rest of my life with.
@shen...👍💪, Good for you!!!! I've talked with several guys on here who explained how their own muscular physiques got their women super turned on. Why can't women look at it from their own view. If a muscular guy turns them on, why can't a muscular female turn on guys. Sometimes even when they see just how much their muscle turns us on, they quit!!! My own wife used to tell me that no man, she had ever been with, had ever gotten as turned on as I got. I could go all night, over and over. She used laugh and tell her friends..all I have to do is pick up a dumbbell and it's all over for him. Then for some reason, as soon as we wed, boom. No more working out. Incidentally, I have worked out my whole life, I wanted to give the women in my life, a good physique as well. I'm happy for you. I wish we could all be in your shoes...shen.
I have never concealed my preference for fit, athletic or muscular women from anyone. I have always been casual about it however in conversation and more open about it with GFs. When I realized I was hooked on buff women in high school, I also realized I need to be in good shape and muscular myself to meet such women. It became part of a fitness oriented lifestyle and a shared value with potential partners, an aspect of compatibility. So most of my GFs and my current LTR were/are in good shape. Now, I am also a very busy professional as is my partner with a load of other interests and responsibilities so we can’t live in the gym all week. And throughout the year, the degree of fitness fluctuates a bit. But I remain true to my values and to be anything less would cause cognitive dissonance for sure. Being buff is healthy, and leads to a better relationship. I’m sorry to hear that in some relationships, partners stopped working out. That risk is always there so you need to be very open about your values before big commitments. This is an excellent value to have and nothing to hide and be ashamed of. Unfortunately if my partner really stopped working out, it would be a deal breaker that could lead to separation or an open relationship.
My wife who is from Russia is a former bikini model. I told her that I love muscular women a lot and she understood it and became an FBB herself. I'm a bodybuilder myself as well. We have incredible sex every single day. Non stop everyday. Husband's of the world who love FBB's tell your wife that you love muscle and want her to be a muscle goddess. Your sex and marriage life will thank you.