Wish to date a female bodybuilder

Hi

   I'm fairly new to this and I hope I'm on the right section of the Muscle Forum board, but I was wondering if any of you guys out there might have any tips as to how I could possibly date a female bodybuilder...I am friends with a wonderful person who is an ex bodybuilder and power lifter from the late 70's/early 80's who is still as strong as an ox and can kick my arse to kingdom come, but I find there is no real sexual attraction and I had been in touch with a couple fbb's on the Facebook networking site, but to tell the truth they seemed to be right up their own arse with an attitude that stinks as if they're trying to make a point of being a bodybuilder. (Even she agreed to this, and she's an ex-bodybuilder.) I did meet Maria Calo in person a couple of years back while she was touring England and while she was a nice enough person, I got the distinct feeling that she doesn't try or makes no attempt to treat her fans/fbb fans in general with any real respect.

Do you belong to a gym? If not.................

What happens if you meet someone you click with, but she's not a BB? Seems like you're limiting yourself (assuming this is a legit request).

well, for your session with Maria Calo (or 90% of all the other fbbs traveling)...

they care for your money, not for you as a man!!!!


For your other wish: Yes, join a gym, and sooner or later you will find more muscular woman than everywhere else!

Also Maria Callo (Ugliest face in bodybuilding by some distance for what it's worth) is married. I mean realistically what is she going to do, dump her husband (her agent too I believe) for some random fan? It's not realistic. As someone else said don't limit yourself. Women like you or I are attracted to are few and far between especially in our side of the world. Even joining a gym, it is very unlikely you will come across muscular women on a regular basis. I don't mean to burst your bubble or anything, but someone with a sexual attraction to female bodybuilders, especially in countries where competitive bodybuilders are rare has to understand that the chances of meeting and dating an FBB unless you're involved in the bodybuilding world yourself is less probable than being knocked down by a bus. I hope you do meet someone but as has been said don't rule out 'normal' women. I mean if it comes to it you can always fantasise about them being muscular when you're having sex with them.

 if from the uk,you know its going to hard to find fbbs in england..sad,but its true.you'll probably better your chances by going stateside.or be very lucky...anyway,i just wanted to add this..do any of you guys remember that documentary with gayle maher..a lovely looking fbb..where she and other fbbs go online or have private meetups with fee paying clients,or schmos.she was asked if she would consider dating any of this guys..she said no period,as in no-way..if made me start to ask questions..those guys that paid to see her and the like,have saved some of their hard earned money.for some,it was a dream come true,to meet,let alone feel a muscular female...i couldnt help thinking,i may be wrong..inside some of those female minds was,give me your money you wierdo...but then again,i've heard some female bodybuilders say that going out with male bodybuilders is a competition in itself,so they prefer your ordinary jo...just thought i'd share that with you guys

Micky, I think you are approaching a person who is a big time body builder. I understand your feeling that you like to date a body builder, because even I feel to. But let's not look at those who are pro body builders. Rather a college girl who does body building for fun will be the right target for us. All the best!

I'm new and I wish for the same

I've not been very lucky with the "go to gym to find muscle chicks" thing.
The only fbb in my gym is the owner, and she's married to another bb. She's 45 (and I'd gladly bang her even if I'm half her age).
The other (few) chicks come to do the usual girlish stuff like lifting 2-4 lbs weights, doing glute excercises and aerobic shit.

well, if there is no fbb in your local gym... try another one...
in big citys you will find enough gyms with muscular women.

Of course, thinking you would find a pro bodybuilder like Maria Calo there, is naive.
(PS. I loooove Maria, no matter what her face looks like)

i am also thinking about to join a gym...
but i have the feeling that when i would workout there, that everybody knows that i am there only to see the girls..

there's a website called http://www.fitness-singles.com you could check out

Absfan: Don't care what others think - just do what you want. You want muscular girl? Then go where it more likely to meet one... I know, this can be difficullt, I have an issue with the lack of self-acceptance of my attraction to muscle - generally this leads to inconfidence.

Confidence is a feature that cannot be overestimated.

I don't mean to burst your bubble or anything, but someone with a sexual attraction to female bodybuilders, especially in countries where competitive bodybuilders are rare has to understand that the chances of meeting and dating an FBB unless you're involved in the bodybuilding world yourself is less probable than being knocked down by a bus.

He could always try to track down Rene Campbell and chance his arm with her. ;D

Dude, I'm sorry, but...really? As if someone who has been admiring female bodybuilding for years - maybe decades, since I don't know the author's post - haven't noticed that by himself...